Ok complete newbie to this hobby, and I am a tough person to verify.  I work at a company that has over 150 k employees, so there is no real way to verify I work there ( you can find me in the directory, but I work from home and never answer that phone).  I don't have any references obviously and it just seems like every contact form is asking for this information.  I really don't want to pay one of the date check services considering I am only looking for one night of fun ( wed this week) and I don't want to waste my time on a backpage girl with no reviews.... Does anyone know any newbie providers that can deal with this lack of info?

Thanks

That will help us in suggesting a potential provider. Unless you're willing to fly a lady out to you. But I wouldn't suggest that since this will be your first time with anyone and most will require a deposit.

Even with your lack of info, a provider will still need to verify/screen you somehow.

I was verified via landline that was registered to my name. After I saw a few providers, I was able to get on date-check, then p411 (for a lot of reasons not worth going into here, I prefer p411). Afterward, I found out that they do have ways to verify those of us who work from home. So I didn't really have to go through all that.

Some girls won't see you if you're on date-check or p411 and don't have OK's. I'd find girls in your area who interest you, and write a nice letter explaining what you are looking for and detailing your situation.

select a few ladies that you are interested in, read their websites carefully as well as their complete reviews (VIP needed for this). Then PM a few of the reviewers to get their ideas as well.

It can be done but it will take some work on your part.

BTW, once you experience P4P, you will find it very difficult to stop at one encounter.

Good luck.

Do you mind going into why you prefer P411 to datecheck?  The question I've asked before is "what benefit, if any, is there of one verification site over the other" and almost always I get "there really is no difference, they both work equally well" as an answer.  I'm with datecheck because they offered lifetime membership, a free initial trial period and required less personal info since I had a provider vouch for me.  I don't see the benefit of a hobbyist joining both but out of curiosity, why do you prefer P411?

What city/state are you in? Also, what type of women are you into?

As someone mentions on your thread below, your website does not say where you are located! At least it's not easy to find if it is on there. That is very important info on a provider website!

Thanks hun... Currently im in California this month..

Date-Check seemed a little haphazard in general...I don't want my information on a site that's not professionally administered.

p411 had it's act together a little more.

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