I have a strange question for the providers. I have met a lot of providers in the past 15 years and many have told me it really does not matter who they see. Most ladies I have spoken with about this say that the majority of men they meet are really nice guys.  

I have had a few [not a lot] of ladies over the years do things that seemed out of the ordinary. Once an agency girl said she was not supposed to do it, but gave me her private pager number [this was 15 years ago] and gave me a rate that was 1/2 of what the agency charged and bypassed the agency to see me. Another agency lady back then [who became a regular] called me on a Saturday and wanted to come over on her own for nothing. I was 26 and she 35 and she always told me that I was young and got her razzed. Last year a provider wanted to keep going after I was spent; since I had taken Cealis I was able, and she rode me for almost another hour that I did not pay for because she wanted to. I was the one watching the clock because I was spent and wondering how long she was going to keep going. I am only good for one pop, If it wasn't for the Cialis I would have been a limp noodle.

A similiar thing happened last year with a doubles date I had when one of the two ladies asked me to keep going after the two hours was up. I said my time was up and she said don't worry about it. She wanted to Cm again. The second lady was cleaning up and walking around the room while I was working on the other; I was feeling a little weird about that.

I just met another provider last month who was 10 years older than me and she kept going on and on about how young and good looking I was and even pitched that I take her out on the boat with my friends, because she wanted to do things like that and had no friends in this city other than another provider she knew. None of this is going to my head because everyone is getting the same FS but I was curious about YMMV.

When you meet with a guy that is handsome, or whatever, have you done anything like that before? Things like this seem to happen to me and I don't know if this is common with clients you like or what?

but here's a case where it clearly isn't.

Congrats to you for having so many good experiences.

Grab them while you can.

I am probably the prototype for "average" looks.  Add in my age and I know very well that I am not causing instant arrousal in ladies because of my looks.  But I have been fortunate enough to be on the good side of YMMV much more often than the bad side.  Treat the ladies as you would any date, be respectful, make them laugh, make them know you appriciate them and the effort they put into their work.

Last night I spent the evening wth a lady is is FAR better looking than I am.  My third time seeing her.  Accomodating her sitter issues by a few minutes (i.e. not bashing her when she had to slip or date 30 min) resulted in an especially fantastic evening, plus she cooked me dinner OTC.  It's sad but the ladies often have to put up with some jerks, and more common, guys who hardly recognize there is a second human beeing in the room with them.  If you treat them nicely (and I'm not talking gobs of extra cash) it doesn't take much to stand out in a positive way.

Odd how there seems to be a direct corrolation between some guys' negative attitude ("I'm paying, it's all about ME") and what they do/do not get in the YMMV category.

When you like a guy and are very attracted to him, you don't need the motivation of payment to see him.

I call this the "Hot Guy Discount."

So, that's the problem with asking providers if they have done this. All guys want to be that guy. If they know you have a "Hot Guy Discount" and they aren't getting it, it's an automatic blow to their ego.

But I have had the opposite happen with a regular. After the 3rd or 4th session, he is short the full fee and feigns willingness to go to the bank and get the rest. I figured out that this was kind of a "do you like me" test to see if there was chemistry enough for me to not care about the money.

Once a guy feels rejected on any level, he is less likely to see you again, so when a guy asks to see you socially or tries to give himself a discount the 4th or 5th time, it makes things very awkward to have to reiterate that your time needs to be paid for and at the same rate.

I don't think it would be good for any provider's business to admit if she's done this.

Angelique

PS You wanna meet for a drink! You sound cute! hahaha

If you ever wonder whether a provider is really "into you".........she's not. If she were, there wouldn't be any doubt. She wouldn't just drop hints, she would go after you like her life depended on it. We aren't talking about demure wallflowers.

It sounds like they consider you a good customer, one on the plus side of the YMMV spectrum. That's something to be glad about, whether it's because of your looks or in spite of them.

Providers are human. Why wouldn't you expect that sometimes they will see a client that for whatever reason "floats their boat" more so than the other guys? Especially if you see someone more than once and the initial jitters of seeing someone unfamiliar are gone.

I've had girls with boundaries drop them once we have established a relationship. This is not surprising. When I first started in this hobby I had one girl I used to see in a MP, eventually we were full-on f*cking TWICE in the hour - letting me drop 2 loads, all for the normal house fee plus tip. She was comfortable with me, she liked my personality, and she was physically attracted to me. No harm in that. I didn't abuse the privilege, instead I let her know how much I appreciated her extra attention. Which is what you should do.

Sure Angelique, as long as you keep your hands to yourself we'll be fine! LOL.

I know, I've given so many hot guy discounts, I'm not making any money!! haha No new boat for me!