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Re: SUPER newbie question?
Not4lng 58 Reviews 2441 reads
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I wouldn't read up on how to please your partner.  You're not going on a date.

theintern22767 reads

Hi, I plan on setting up an appointment with a well-reviewed provider over the weekend. I haven't actually set it up yet, but she seems pretty open to it. It will be the first time I've EVER been with anyone. Is there anything I can do to prepare for the meeting? (For example knowing beforehand how to put  on a cover, reading articles on how to please your partner, watch *movies* for specific things, etc.)

Any other tips for a SUPER newbie about losing *it* to a provider for the first time? Also, would you even recommend going for the first time with a provider (as opposed to someone you're dating)?

and is as ingrained in us as breathing.  Just relax brother, make sure you're hydrated and clean, and let the well reviewed provider reset your brain for you.

:-)

Since we all have very unique tastes, interests, turn-ons, and turn-offs, there's really no way for anyone to give you some pre-session warm up or preparation tips for specific acts.

She'll put the cover on for you, and she'll know when to do it.  Make sure you let her know JUST how new you are and try to pay attention to any rules she has.  BTW, even if she allows CIM (cum in mouth) it's best to give her a little warning.

Good luck

I wouldn't read up on how to please your partner.  You're not going on a date.

famkejensen1485 reads

Not4lng is right...in fact I don't like it when a client tries to please me. The pressure to perform is agonizing. I will make sure he feels as if he's the best thing since sliced bread in my own way. Go in and enjoy yourself...just be very clean and observe her limits.

theintern21785 reads

Thank you for all your answers. The input from Ms. Famke was expecially informative.

If anybody else has any input, it would be greatly appreciated. :)

ok, with that out of the way...

your question has come up a few times on the board in the past. I've posted a link to the most recent thread and you can search for others. Check out the advice given in them as well if it helps.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

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