Considering establishing a sugar daddy to sugar baby relationship...anyone here have experince with this or opinion? it seems to offer some advantages over the typical hobby. I think it has the potential to complicate things perhaps too much, yet le potential is gone and maybe a more personal. I respect ur guys opinions!

Seems to me that these gals that are seeking a sugar daddy are looking for a steady flow of money with out working for it.  Lets say she needs about 2 grand a month from yu and has no job so to  speak.  You might as well be married.  You're stepping into her life and she will give you all the details, good, bad or indifferent.
This is a civvy, right, or is she into the biz.  You have to look at all the angles before you start the flow of cash....

you won't have the variety, which is one of the main reasons we hobby.  I like pizza but I can't eat it every day.

this is the best way to ruin a good thing, it only complicates everything.my advice, stay clear of this situation.im sure there are good reports on this but not many.

About a month ago the New York Times had a piece about sugar daddy/baby relationships, with interviews from both sides.  It was in the Sunday magazine section...you might want to look it up on their website...
From the figures quoted in the article, you pay a whole lot less as a sugar daddy...

that's a good point

It will cost you more in the long run,
time wise, drama wise if she flips out,
either falls in love with you OR demands more $$$ for an "emergency". Just see a few gals on TER & eventually you may click in a non-client only way & it will evolve into a nice SD/SB thing.


I have a semi sugar daddy thing with a guy..It just happened that way, he wasn't a client ever, just met through mutual friends.
I say semi because he's not demanding full time attention.
He doesnt mind me escorting which is nice...We hang out whenever just for fun (I genuinely enjoy his company & sex), go shopping, fishing.. I dont demand money but he sends me a kind allowance.

Good luck & be safe!

that's interesting! it sounds like the kind of situation im looking for, very casual, low key, no big expectations.

thanks for your input

Bob,

I think it is fine if a relationship ends up that way, based on mutual understanding and agreement but I would not go in search of a woman advertising herself as a sugar baby.  She is not a provider and is looking for at least a  financial committment.  Don't tie yourself down at the onset.

when I was 20 or so I had a few sugar daddies. Some I loved some I used. For the most part I didn't provide much of a sex life for them. They seemed to just enjoy the arm candy and the constant chasing of me. I found that when they did catch me I lost them.

But they were never disappointed with my company and the illusion that was there that we meant something to each other.

I would love to have a sugar daddy now. But he would be a king in my palace. I would be there for him in every possible way but one...

I require more than one man daily. Even if I am in love. Even if my heart is completely committed.
So I would keep working if I had a sugar daddy. But my profession would be second priority.

ON THE OTHER HAND

I know a gal who goes to the sugar daddy sites and gets the guys and claims to them she is there one and only but she works on the side.

In reality for me it would take a rather wealthy man who was incredibly with me to retire me. So I wouldn't even ask anyone to retire me.

If I were going to be a sugar mama, I would be so pissed off if my sugar baby told me he was my one and only and then was hooking on the side.

how about you