Ok I'm new to this and I have no clue how this works. I see all the women they look amazing so I bought a VIP still don't know wtf I'm doing.. I'm heading to Miami for a business trip thought I'd meet some hot women and spend some money. I don't understand the requirements when they say references and bs. Please someone explain. All I have is a tee account with VIP membership and I have never seen an escort on here. And suggestions or starting points for me?

Ok as far as references, you have none so there are basically a couple ways to go about it.  You can contact a girl and she can verify you but you will probably have to give her some personal info to do that.

IMHO, the best route to go is to join a verification site.  I think P411 is probably the best one out there.

https://www.preferred411.com/index.cfm

They will verify you.

You can then contact girls through the P411 site.  For example, right now, Miami has 85 girls listed on P411.  BTW, Miami is really good place to find some SUPER HOT women too - great place to go to get started!!

I've been using P411 for about 6 years and have never had a bad experience with anyone I've connected with through that site - but.... I also make sure that the girl has some reviews on here too before I make a connection.  

So, to sum it all up, if a girl is on P411 and has some reviews on here too, you should be in good shape.

Good luck and most importantly - Have Fun!!

Ok I'll fill one out .. Heading to Miami with a butt load of cash so I wanna have all this figured out before hand thanks!

Your TER VIP membership allows you to search provider reviews in the area you desire. You can also participate on these discussion boards, and PM other members with appropriate questions. TER is an invaluable research tool for you to find quality providers who offer the specific physical attributes and services that you might seek. It does not serve as a reference.

Most reputable providers want references to assure their own safety. A newbie with no references has more hoops to jump through. One way to get started is to join a verification service like P411 or date-check. They both involve giving up some personal information and paying a fee. Another thing you can do is to seek out a few providers who require less (or no) screening - many here will tell you to never see a provider who does not screen... it CAN be risky, but still is one way to jump start your hobby. Sometimes agencies are the way to go in the beginning (although some screen just as much as indies do, you have to look around).

There are providers who will see you without a provider reference as long as you are willing to give up your real name, and employment information. Should you trust someone with that info? Well, that is what TER is for - does she have multiple good reviews? Can you PM one or more of her recent reviewers to get their opinion of her reliability?

There are also plenty of providers who will see you without any screening at all. As I mentioned above, this is risky - it's unprofessional, and says something about how that provider feels about taking risks. I personally have seen many providers who do not screen and have never had a problem - most of my "dates" are in a small market area, with providers who really just don't know any better. I'm thinking that in Miami there might be a higher instance if rip-off behavior, but I don't know that to be true, maybe someone with experience in that area will chime in.

Good luck.

Thanks for your advice

Since the previous posts discussed screening, when you're ready to look for a provider, check the Florida regional ad board. Most of the providers advertising will also have reviews. Read the reviews so you know what's on the provider's menu. Check their website if they have one. You might start by sending them a TER PM and introduce yourself.  Some ads, however, will say no pm's, so check thier website for best way to contact them. However, you decide to contact them, be honest, and tell them you're a newbie, Tell them you'll cooperate with their screening.

Also read the self help center, upper right corner of the main newb page near the life preserver. Also read back some pages here, many newb questions have been discussed before.

that the girls will do their very best to assist you with removing the burden of having a "butt load of cash"

Lots of money in Miami with LOTS of HOT women - you should be in for a REALLY good time!!

Thanks good info

you will find South Florida has some fantastic independent ladies that will rock your world.  Go to the reviews tab and select Miami and fill in as many fields as you want (age, height, etc.).  Read the reviews and select who you want to see.  You will think you are in a candy store.

So they are asking if you have references from other women you have seen.

If you have never seen others, then you need to say you haven't done this before, and they will tell you what other information they need from you in order to book you.

Be prepared to give up some personal information.  In this day and age, providers don't think it's worth the risk of seeing new clients if they can't be verified and screened.

That's the best place to start to learn how this site operates.  It will answer a lot of the questions you may come up with sooner or later.

The advice you have been given here is excellent, hope you heed it well.

Have fun.
Swim

That's why a previous poster advised you to join Preferred411.  Gina will work with you to get you verified so that until you get some references, you will be able to get some dates.  Also on that site, the providers can indicate if they are newbie friendly, look for those, screening may be lighter than others.

Swim