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Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1575 reads
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1 / 16

Yes you are. It's quite possible that she will remember your face when she sees you again but even if she doesn't she is at least being honest with you. You really don't know if those other ladies actually remembered you or if they just acted like they did.

Depending on how high volume your gal is she may have seen dozens of men since she saw you last.  It's unrealistic to expect to be remembered after only one visit.

Many years a go I saw a great lady who eventually became one of my ATF's. We developed a great rapport via email after our initial visit. Six months later when I was able to see her again she confessed to me that she remembered we had a good time but she really couldn't place my face with my name until she saw me again that second time.

shudaknownbetter 1672 reads
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2 / 16

You are being too sensitive.  She likely has to juggle names, emails, phones...  with no tie in & we expect them to not keep records for our security.  
Unless there is some reminder you can use to jog her memory...  it's unfair.  She'll likely remember when she sees you again.
skb

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 793 reads
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3 / 16

If all you are experiencing are fake orgasms...

As far as the marketing aspect goes well, we didn't hear the conversation but since he was calling to re-book with her It doesn't really seem like it's much of an issue...

anotherview 821 reads
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4 / 16

You are a hobbyist so you think it is good marketing to fake remembering someone. As an escort I can't tell you how many guys pretend to have seen us before trying to get past the screening process. They bank on us not wanting to bruise their ego by 'not remembering' them.

I can usually suss out the fake ones within two emails exchanges since I ask them to refresh my memory and ask some specific quetions about our meetings. 99% of the time they can't answer the questions.

To the OP, I can imagine it does hurt a bit that she didn't remember you, but as someone else said, she has probably seen a lot of guys since you. Try not to take it personally.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 564 reads
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5 / 16

I've been at this for a while. I'm not kidding myself about anything. I'm far too old for that. I never said that every "O" witnessed when there is money on the table was real. What you said was that most of them are fake.  I happen to disagree...but maybe that's just been my good fortune...

CarterG 3582 reads
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6 / 16

I met a provider and thought we had a great time all around, then I called to see her again about a week later and she didn't seem to remember me at all. Now I'm turned off.  Its been my experience in the past that ladies would remember you and act like you were there best friend and they missed you.

inicky46 61 Reviews 1167 reads
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7 / 16

You're right but as far as "You really don't know if those other ladies actually remembered you or if they just acted like they did," that's exactly the point.   Even if she doesn't remember you it would be nice if she'd still say, "Oh, hi, baby, it's so great to hear from you again!"  That's just good marketing.  I mean, c'mon, most orgasms are faked so what's so bad about faking that you remember someone?

no_email 3 Reviews 725 reads
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8 / 16

Posted By: CarterG
I met a provider and thought we had a great time all around, then I called to see her again about a week later and she didn't seem to remember me at all. Now I'm turned off.  Its been my experience in the past that ladies would remember you and act like you were there best friend and they missed you.

inicky46 61 Reviews 640 reads
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9 / 16

Re the fake orgasms, not to worry.  Recent experience includes several convulsing, squirting extravaganzas.  Still, I don't kid myself that all the others are real. If you can do that, more power to ya! I'd just suggest you may have a very active imagination!

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 757 reads
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10 / 16

I would think she would remember you being that is only been a week.Maybe the lady you saw was more high volume than other providers that did remember and she cannot remember everyone.I would bring up something that happened when you saw her or something that is distinct about you that will jog her memory.If she still does not remember move on to the next lady.A gentleman that I saw a week ago and contacts me again I would remember but every lady is not the same.

AdrianaSabella See my TER Reviews 510 reads
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11 / 16

Posted By: shudaknownbetter
You are being too sensitive.  She likely has to juggle names, emails, phones...  with no tie in & we expect them to not keep records for our security.  
Unless there is some reminder you can use to jog her memory...  it's unfair.  She'll likely remember when she sees you again.
skb
This happens to me a few times a week and i am not hight volume, not that it has anything to do with that.
You said you were a newbie and that is why you feel frustrated. Its understandable. Most friends and providers know that it is not safe to keep records. Yes, i saw you once, twice but i cant memorize your number and there is many Bob's, Jonhs and Mike...etc...most providers dont have secretaries and it would be nice if you could jog her memory about the encounter and not be offended that she didnt scream your name on the first ring!

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 560 reads
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12 / 16

I would agree that orgasms, even faked ones, are much less common, actually non-existent with non-GFE gals.

In the 80's and early 90's I was mostly picking up streetwalkers.  Even the ones who had apartments or hotel rooms were basically one-and-done girls who would make me cum and be fully dressed before I even got the condom off.  In the 21st century this same mind set exists with the CL and BP "quickie" girls and also with a lot of agency types.  

A real GFE gal is a whole different experience. Now, I know that some of them fake it some of the time as well. Hell, every ATF I've ever had has told me stories about faking it if the guy was taking too long with DATY or trying to pound her into the mattress after he's finished in some sort of effort to "please" her.  Some girls simply won't allow themselves to relax and enjoy the sex. It is and will always be just a job to them.  I never see anyone like that more than once.

inicky46 61 Reviews 891 reads
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13 / 16

OK, I bow to your greater experience.  Most of mine goes back to the pre-GFE days of 1986-1994.  I experienced a few providers getting O's then, too, just not the majority.  Hence my use of the word "most".  Since my recent "cumback" I'd say it's been about 50/50.  I don't pretend to know what's typical.  Maybe we should do a survey!  Now there's a thread!

impposter 49 Reviews 615 reads
posted
15 / 16

Don't sweat it that she doesn't remember you. You should really start to worry when YOU start making appointments with someone YOU forgot that you previously saw!

wildmax 6 Reviews 557 reads
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16 / 16

Let's see the usual provider will meet  ave. 5 customers a day.  4 day a week. that's 20 in one week.
Monthly 80 and two month  for 160  and yearly 1200 + more or less.   Ave $300 per hour.. so
she would  make approx  $ 300G a year.   Lot's of dicks  all for just money.  

Under this situation,
Do you think a provider cares to remember a customer who she
met a few months back?

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