Hey girls,

I am a neglected hubby who gets zero fellatio love. So I look for providers who provide BBBJ and a CIM variant.

When I find one that already has reviews that info is generously provided for me by TER.

However when contacting someone who doesn't have reviews yet, I never know how to ask if this is on the table because most providers say "no explicit phone calls".  So my question is, when calling a provider, how do I verify that this is an option in a way which will be well received when she hears me ask it?

How would you want to be asked this question?

Thanks,
Jiz

Put it in your profile... done

this becomes a mute point.

I am not a newbie. I've been doing this since 2002, but when I contact a new provider I don't know how to phrase this question.

I want to thank those that answered. I was a P411 member until 6 months ago. I just renewed my membership.  I just wish I knew how to smoothly broach this subject with providers that aren't on P411 (and there are lots of them including some that are new to this and don't even know about it or TER).

...there was a reasonable assumption that you were asking as a newbie.

Do the research, use local review sources, TER, back channel communications with other members who have reviews in the area you want to play...there are many ways to find the info you're seeking.

First, I'm not a girl. But that won't stop me from replying.

1. I don't know everything about P411, but AllbSure suggests that you say something in your P411 profile that will let others know what you like. Then, "Do you enjoy the things that I enjoy in my P411 profile?" is not explicit.
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2. Do your current TER reviews express what you like?  Do the Profiles of the Providers reviewed make it easy to see what you like in their Profiles? "As you can see from my reviews, there are certain things that I like very much. Do you think we are compatible those ways?"  

If your potential date has VIP, ask her to read your Juicy Details, "especially my reviews of Alice and Carol, and you'll get the idea."  

If she does not have VIP, "I know you can't read my review details, but the Provider Profiles for Alice, Barbara and Carol clearly show the things I look for. The Profiles of Debbie, Evelyn, and Faith say "No" in certain categories and I didn't enjoy myself as much."  
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3. If you're lucky, after you are verified, she'll ignore the "Read my reviews" plea and simply say, "Just tell me what the fuck you want instead of sending me on a scavenger hunt!"

I posted in General Discussion, a Mod moved it to the newbie section.

I would guess that Providers with only Limited Provider VIP can't read those profiles either.,

It is a newbie type question. That is why it got moved here.

Oops! Thanks, PS. I forgot about all of the non-VIP limitations.

But that's a good question. Can any Provider with free limited VIP help to answer that? We know you can't see others' Juicy Details, but can you see ALL or just some of the Profile Details? (I think the blocked Profile fields say "VIP Only.")  
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(The OP was asking about Providers w/o reviews, hence, no free limited VIP (but maybe full VIP if they paid for it). I'm just curious about whether free limited VIP includes all of the Profile fields. Thanks.)