Scenario:  good reviews, no pics or very obscured pics. You show up & are disappointed with the appearance / she does not match the reviewers rating. (Not talking bait-&-switch).   You don't want to proceed with the appt.  

What do you do?

1. Tell her you've changed your mind & leave $50 for her time & make a U-turn.

2. Go ahead even though you are not turned-on in the least

3. other options?

If you think Option 1, what are the possible outcomes of that action?

Not so horny, #1

Very horny, #2


Leave (#1) or Stay (#2), there is no Option 3.

A possible #3 is to pay her 1/2, explain that you have changed you mind, and want to do the right thing.

This is a good reason not to see gals who have no photos or very obscured photos; especially if you are a very visually motivated hobbyist.

You have to bear the responsibility here.

"Even though you're not turned on in the least", the only thing to do is leave. The $50 may be a bit of a problem. I think I would leave half of her donation, and chalk it up to part of my education.

If you stay, neither of you will enjoy it.

the appointment with her with the information she supplied.  It is not her fault, and she shouldn't bear the business consequences, if you made the mistake.

She did not schedule with someone for your time because you already booked it.  Therefore she loses out if you don't pay her.  $50.00 is not enough. Half the fee may be appropriate because she doesn't have to service you, but she is arguably entitled to the full fee so you may as well fuck her for it.

Just tell her to lay on her stomach and do her lap doggie.

Another one is to have her grab her ankles and go as fast and hard as you can, to nut fast and get out of there.

The money is difficult question to answer but you should ask the lady (especially one with bad photos) about her appearance and what you are looking for before confirming an appointment. Maybe even ask her to send you a better photo via text or email so you can get a better idea of her appearance. It will save you wasting hers and your time.

I will not be seeing her.  I have to have some idea of what is behind the door.

BTW, you didn't say how many reviews or for how long she has been around.  You could have PM'd some of the reviewers to ask what she looks like.

If you decide to see a girl with no pics it's all on you to do the right thing.  If you don't want to close your eyes and fuck her for old glory then leave half and apologize. No guarantee that you still won't wind up on a black list.

Personally I would just go for it.  Sex with an unattractive woman is still better than no sex...

I have been in this situation. A provider visited me at my hotel room. Her pictures were from a time when she was 100 lbs lighter (I'm not exagerating). BBWs aren't really my preference.

I paid full fare for a massage and a very decent bbbj and away she went with both of us in a good mood.

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I would consider that almost a bait-&-switch ...or at the very least, deceptive on her part ...

I'm not sure I'd be willing to take the hit in that scenario ...

I had one early on before I dicovered TER that was like that. Pictures where very old and she had gained a lot of weight. No way was she attractive to me. I paid her half and said apologized. Told her that she was not what I had expected from her ad and that I preferred not to spend the time with her.

To get back at me, she called another provider and gave my phone number and room #. I was in the hotel bar for a drink and got a call saying "I'm here" and I was thinking "who is here". Went up met the young lady to figure out who she was and why she was there, and we went back to the bar for a couple drinks.
After looking at her call history we figured out what happened. As revenge it backfired, I had a great chemistry with this lady, and after some drinks and talking (off the clock since it wasnt my fault she was there) we did go on back to my room and had a great time.