Can you have rough sex with providers? A little slapping, spitting, choking, pissing, etc.

Ask the lady how she feels about rough play. Some women don't mind, and even enjoy that sort of play. If you tried to slap me, it would take three highly skilled surgeons to remove my stiletto from your rectum. We are all different that way

Just don't forget to put your location, along with your desires.

Is this Tiger's real handle?  From his text messages, he liked this type of activity.

Not without their prior consent. Since you can't ask questions like this before a first meeting you are going to have to roll the dice with a lady and talk about your fetishes with her once you gain her trust.  Expect to pay more and don't necessarily expect it to happen on your first visit.

Agree with others, this can not be generally discussed in advance.  There is S&M on the profile page.  You'd need to check her web site, & reviews (need VIP).  
I think providers who do offer it, are more comfortable with dishing it out than recieving.  Their risk of injury or visible marks could put her on the disabled list & cost her a bunch of money.  
I expect this would cost extra...  and would have firm rules as to what is permitted.
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As the others have said, please be sure this is a service that the provider offers and talk to her before your session begins to let her know this is what you want. It is not something to spring on a provider during the session if you haven't discussed it before.

Please, please and please find a lady that offers this and NEVER try anything you mentioned with a lady that does not. It could end very badly for both of you.

I had a situation with a client years ago who apparently liked to "scare" women. He asked me what I would do if he suddenly got rough with me. Not a nice thing to do!!!!!

And if you do find one, please respect her code word/s and stop. Even in that situation...no means no.

A provider I was with last week showed me a gun she had hidden behind the pillows in the couch we were sitting in. Not to scare me, this was after we were done and were talking about hobbies. Your client could have been in for a nasty surprise if he had tried to pull a stunt like that.

Is still a felony.  It does not matter if the lady is a provider or girlfriend.

Unless this was discussed and consented to, you could find yourself in trouble.

Look for ladies that offer BD/SM and then read reviews to ensure that she is not a Mistress or "top," and is a "bottom" or submissive.  Then make sure you and she have a clear understanding of everything and that you respect her limits.

You will need VIP to find the lady you are looking for.  I suspect they are few and far between.  In fact, I personally only know of 1.

Is this Tiger Woods posting??