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Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 626 reads
posted
1 / 14

As far as her rate goes. Call and ask or email and ask.  It's not against the law for her to tell you what her rate is for her company.  Don't ask any questions about specific activities.  If she won't tell you her rate, move on.

Don't assume that just because a girl doesn't have TER reviews that she is "new".  The vast majority of BP girls don't have TER reviews. Since you aren't interested in being talked out of going with a BP girl I'm going to stop here.

Good luck...

BrownLove80 1898 reads
posted
2 / 14

I spotted a provider I'd like to contact on backpage. All she mentions is a name and number as far as contact info. There's no mention of donation rate. How will i know her rate? Is it appropriate to ask prior to setting an appointment or should I expect she will tell me?
This being the first time I'll engage in the hobby, I looked up the number on escort phone search, which turned up only one previous ad in recent days. Also looked her up on TER and couldn't find her reviews. I guess she's new.
I know some of you may suggest I go with provider with an established reputation especially this being my first time, but I'm willing to take a chance.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 665 reads
posted
3 / 14

Unless you can verify through legitimate reviews here on TER or elsewhere, I'd advise against using it.

Dr Who revived 448 reads
posted
4 / 14

I just want to get a general timeframe so I can guess when you'll be posting up your story.

Let's see...first time playing..BP gal...no reviews..no amounts...WHAT COULD POSSIBLY GO WRONG HERE

Just like BG said...I'll stop here so as to not dissuade you from your appointment with glory (sure hope it's not LE...that would be a bummer) LOL

Posted By: BrownLove80
I spotted a provider I'd like to contact on backpage. All she mentions is a name and number as far as contact info. There's no mention of donation rate. How will i know her rate? Is it appropriate to ask prior to setting an appointment or should I expect she will tell me?
This being the first time I'll engage in the hobby, I looked up the number on escort phone search, which turned up only one previous ad in recent days. Also looked her up on TER and couldn't find her reviews. I guess she's new.
I know some of you may suggest I go with provider with an established reputation especially this being my first time, but I'm willing to take a chance.
-- Modified on 3/17/2013 12:48:56 PM

BrownLove80 489 reads
posted
5 / 14

What's the deal with BP anyway? I only learned about the site a few days ago lol

Dr Who revived 458 reads
posted
6 / 14

As mrfisher has answered here...BP has many questionable ads.

My suggestion is to read this board...back 10-20 pages and many of the topics discussed will enlighten you to the issues that you have in your OP.

But if you are going to forge ahead unwittingly...I wish you the best of luck.  You will probably need lots of it.  And if you do read here...you will read that "luck is not a good plan".

Just saying  :D

Posted By: BrownLove80
What's the deal with BP anyway? I only learned about the site a few days ago lol

harborview 10 Reviews 526 reads
posted
7 / 14

either Rip Offs or LE, but many more of the first.  Newbies should see well reviewed providers.  You should do proper research, start with TER, search reviews for your area.  Much more efficient that startng with the ad venue.

BrownLove80 453 reads
posted
8 / 14

Posted By: harbor_view
either Rip Offs or LE, but many more of the first.  Newbies should see well reviewed providers.  You should do proper research, start with TER, search reviews for your area.  Much more efficient that startng with the ad venue.
Ok you guys have talked me out of it, which i admit i needed to hear. I only searched TER, googled her number, searched escort phone search. Anywhere other sites I can search for local reviews?

clarence37 37 Reviews 416 reads
posted
9 / 14

There are a number of smaller review sites. It's not kosher to name or link to them here. But you can google "escort reviews" and so on, and you'll find some. It depends on where you live, some are more prominent than others. Not to sound TER-centric, but if she is not reviewed here, than she is either 1) very new, 2) shady (changing name and persona often), 3) fake (LE, scam/ripoff, etc), or maybe just 4) working in a small market area, where TER reviewers are scarce.

If you decide to see an unreviewed girl, you are "taking one for the team", and you can't EXPECT anything. She might be awesome. She might be a cop. She might be a ripoff artist, or just a terrible provider. NO WAY to know. I have TOFTT many times because I live in a small market area and reviewed providers simply don't exist. I have to drive at least 2 hours to see even a small selection of well-reviewed providers. I have had pretty good success, but I also have 12+ years of experience in the game which aids me in my choices.

And when I say I've had success, I mean that I haven't been arrested or robbed. I've certainly had my share of "mediocre" providers.

Good luck.

Peppermint 425 reads
posted
10 / 14

Why are you willing to take a chance? Are you just in love with her photos? It's likely those photos are fake. Heed the advice of people here...there a very high chance you will regret seeing a BP girl w/ no reviews.

Posted By: BrownLove80
I spotted a provider I'd like to contact on backpage. All she mentions is a name and number as far as contact info. There's no mention of donation rate. How will i know her rate? Is it appropriate to ask prior to setting an appointment or should I expect she will tell me?
This being the first time I'll engage in the hobby, I looked up the number on escort phone search, which turned up only one previous ad in recent days. Also looked her up on TER and couldn't find her reviews. I guess she's new.
I know some of you may suggest I go with provider with an established reputation especially this being my first time, but I'm willing to take a chance.

clarence37 37 Reviews 467 reads
posted
11 / 14
BrownLove80 473 reads
posted
12 / 14

Posted By: clarence37


And when I say I've had success, I mean that I haven't been arrested or robbed. I've certainly had my share of "mediocre" providers.

Good luck.
Wow. I'm curious to the severity of your robbery. Like were you ever threatened with bodily harm? How about arrests? If you don't mind, I'd like to hear the circumstances of these incidents.

clarence37 37 Reviews 459 reads
posted
13 / 14

You quoted me. Maybe you should read my post again, and note where it says I HAVEN'T been arrested or robbed...

harborview 10 Reviews 485 reads
posted
14 / 14

but you are new...  ripe to be taken advantage of.   I suggest you stick to well reviewed providers for now.  
When you have some experience, you can circle back.  If she's a good provider, likely she'll have some reviews by then.  And you'll have the perspective to sniff out when something doesn't smell right.
Remember this is not Match dot com.  You are paying for her companionship for an hour or two.   You are not MARRYING her.  In fact, I recomment strongly against going exclusive with a single provider (she not going exclusive with YOU!)   It is very hard to keep your emotions under control with serial meetings.  It's hormonal...  the post-coital hormone surge was useful to cave men & cave women to protect the women & children...  but falling for a provider is messy.   I ALWAYS fall for a provider...  until I see the next one!   If a gal thinks you are falling for them, a wise provider will refuse to see you.  Clingy clients & stalkers are a provider's worst nightmare.  

Best Wishes,
HV

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