After the session, don't y'all feel all relaxed and want to lounge or nap for a while?  If that's the case, outcalls are the only option right?  So I'm thinking about having the provider pick the location of the outcall, so I can have the room all to myself afterwards.  And being a newbie, she wouldn't be stressed about being in an unknown place.  Any ideas or experiences about this?

I prefer out calls for just this reason. What you have to understand however is that the "place" has very little to do with a gal's comfort level. It is all about you, not the hotel.  The chances are she has worked at any property that you would get a room at anyway so unless you picked a place that she knew was "hot" it wouldn't really matter where you where.

What is important is that you provide her with the proper screening information and/or references.  This is what she will need to feel comfortable with you.  FYI, a lot of providers who normally do in calls simply will not see a new guy for an out call.

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Sounds like a good idea, but I'd be afraid I might fall asleep and wake up the next morning in the hotel room.  That'll be a bitch to explain to the SO.

I prefer incall, the lady I prefer to see has a great incall location, so that makes it easy.  I have to get back to work after we finish, I'm not saying that I get much done, but I do get back to work.  We do check into a nice local or near local hotel, and don't leave the room for a day or two.

I do enjoy long (48 hour)travel appointments as you can really relax, over and over again.  I get a suite in a major city, and we fly in, check in, and have a lot of fun.

Your thinking is sound. You are correct that it's frustrating to have to haul your ass out of bed and onto the street after a session. So long as the cost is not an issue and the provider is amenable, this is a good idea.