Ok, so I am really new to this and my partner and I have a date with a lady this weekend, we are really specific about what it is that we want - but can't ask agencies because they can't talk about - how the heck do I find out if this lady will provide what we need? thanks

The usual way is to look at reviews and if you  have further questions, to PM some of the previous reviewers to give more details.

With a couples situation, the odds of finding a couples review is lower.

Try this instead:  Let's say you want to be sure that the provider is truly bi.  Without getting specific, you can just ask that of her.  She'll know what you mean.

Or:  Lets's say you want to do something on the kinky side, GS, for example.  I think it's OK to ask something like "Are you into water sports." and see what response you get.

The key is to be discreet and careful how you put things.

Some other helpful hints would be to look for women who's website specifically mentions couples.

If you see a lady you are interested in seeing, e-mail her and explain that you are a couple and ask her something along the lines of "my girlfriend loves to have fun too" or words to that effect. Myself, I would probably respond by indicating I would be looking forward to meeting her (I'm enthusiastically bi LOL). If the ladie's response is more reserved, that can be your clue that entertaining couples does not mean entertaining your GF.

Hope these tips help.

You might ask the girl if she is bi.  Without suggesting an interest in exchanging anything you might be able to discuss things you and your wife enjoy doing with her "girlfriend" at home. I dunno, it's all kind of complicated anymore.

We date couples - the other way around!

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TS Jamie

First, might I suggest you get your VIP so you can search by fileds that are relevant to this type of search.  Including...2 girl action, or will bring second provider(indication of bi acceptance)

Second, Do your research.  Do a Search for a lady who meets your requirements and then post on your local board, asking for endorsements or warnings about her.

Third, Listen to what the local "experts" have to say.  If she is bi and loves other women, or is at least open to threesomes, they will tell you if they know.

Fourth, make contact, verify that you are a couple looking to play and have fun.

Be Safe and Good Luck!


And Remember: Think with the Big Head and The Little Head will get Fucked.  Think with the Little Head, and You Will Get Fucked!