Two options for you:

1)  Give your pay-check stub, full name, contact number and email address to a screening company such as RS2k, P411, etc. (There are more, cannot think of them off the top of my head because I don't use the others.)

or

2)  Give her your real, full name and whatever other information she needs.  

The gals are professionals, so you can trust your information to them, allegedly.  Get a well reviewed one for a while, then after you have 5 or 6 references, you should be okay with first name and a number of references, I would think. (Again, I use a screening service so that I do not risk a provider getting a bug up her butt and giving me a bad rap with another one...don't think it would happen, but why bother chancing it?)

Full Name, place of employment, job number, cell number, etc are all pretty standard questions, IMHO.

to remain safe.  If you use a hobby phone that was paid for with cash and has minutes added with cash, that worry is solved.  

If a lady asks for more information than you are willing to give, move on.  There are newbie-friendly providers who will see you.

I'm personally not concerned about family or an employer learning about what I do, yet I use a disposable phone for calling all but my most trusted escorting friends. There are simply too many ways things could turn ugly. Being able to toss your phone in the trash can put a lot of trouble behind you.

Do the words "Hellz Yes" mean anything to you? *smile*

There are plenty, and honestly, I think the pre-paids have better actual phones than the services.  I have one added to my bill with my current provider, they charge me $15 month + $25 each month I want to change the number on my "disposable."

I use a fake skype name and number as a way to contact providers.  Do you all see anything wrong with this method?  It's practically free ($3/mo) and I don't have to carry two phones.

-J

I use skype too.  I love it.  Works all over the world.  But regardless of what number I tell it to use as the caller ID, I find that it uses all sorts of crazy numbers.  Sometimes they aren't even phone numbers -- stuff like '713-1' or '0091314', etc.  In foreign countries it often uses local-looking numbers, which is OK but can be confusing because people will assume you're in town when you're not.  But I text (SMS) a lot overseas anyway, and that makes it easier on everyone.

I have never been a member of RS2K or any other verification service.  If necessary, when setting up an appointment with a new person, I just call from work and tell them to google the number that shows up on their caller ID.  That allows them to learn plenty.  And that's all they get.  I don't do references or tell anyone my TER username.

I have never used a 'hobby phone'.  I don't use my work email address, though.