The more good reviews, the better. The better established she is, the better. In conjunction with her being satisfactory in appearance from the pics on her website, you have the ingredients needed to to consider sending that first e-mail. If anything is lacking, keep searching...
I completely understand, but what about pro providers who started as newbies? Pros were seen as newbies before without reviews. It's sad because alot of newbies like myself have joined this site. But it's not right to shun away hobbyists from newbies due to no reviews. I've had men tell me they have had excellent providers, but never provided a reference. Alot of hobbyists never even heard of these sites. These hobbyists are actually scared because of bad providers, comments pertaining to unreviewed newbies, and for them to stay away from us. I wouldn't flat out tell a hobbyist to look elsewhere like I've seen in postings for weeks. I don't think it's fair and we good ones deserve a chance too. I think the fall of CL has also become a culprit here for not so hot providers also. These men want honest, intelligent, and beautiful women like ourselves to have a good time. That's why TER is available to not only newbies, but pros, so men can choose. Not being scared away because he sees newbie. Thanks to the www there are so many sites to find out about fake pics and all. So let's not make this board, "stay away from newbies" because we have all started out the same! WITHOUT REVIEWS!
I have read the postings and to some I agree and others I don't. As a newbie, I understand exactly what you are going through. Not all providers are bad because of lack of reviews. It's tacky and rude. It would be as if I went to my boss and asked for a raise on my first day of work lol. If that means I see less friends, fine. But you always have options. It's actually sad on both sides because the hobbyists should know what they are getting into. Not some sort of surprise i.e. LE, fugly you get my drift
But the good providers, like myself and others are passed over because of no reviews. Even in my joining TER, some providers have awful reviews. They still see hobbyists, so it can go both ways. There are websites to go on to ween out fake pictures and all. But I guess the whole CL thing has everyone wary of bad providers. I hope you find a nice lady to have fun with. But please don't pass on newbies, because even the pros started without reviews. Not all of us are bad But do your research also.
Newbies are better off staying with reviewed providers, BUT. I am an experienced hobbyist that try newbie providers if they strike my fancy. I look for a number of features in their ads and behavior. If a newbie wants to give a newbie provider a shot, these are items that my experience say must be heeded.
-If she has an ad with an email link, I try emailing her a base email stating interest and whether she is available for my type, ie, race, weight, age, profession, et al. If she does not answer the email, I move on. She is either a quick buck artist, will not see me based upon an issue with my race, weight, profession, age, et al, or is disorganized. The quick buck type will rip me off. The disorganized type leaves a trail that law enforcement will eventually become wise to. I don't want to spend time with a provider who has an issue with my appearance or profession.
-If I do a brief email or call, I propose a date on a day other than the one I emailed or called. If she does not respond to email or snaps that I can call her when I am ready to visit, I move on. No email response brings in the problems listed above. Irritation with me not wanting to visit same day implies that the provider is a quick buck artist or is not particularly discreet about who walks into a room with her. My experience has taught me that providers that are pleasant and willing to see me on a future date are legit, they may not be top notch, but they are legit. I don't waste a provider's time with long emails or phones calls. I am plain vanilla during the contact, nothing sexual is stated or implied.
-I look for multiple ads from the provider. I look to see whether the provider's age changes in ads. If a picture is posted, I examine it to determine whether she hides features that don't need to be hidden. I like an age range for providers I visit. I check a provider's ad to see whether she hides her age, or as pointed out, mistates it. Multiple ads are not bad, per se, but I examine them for consistency, pictures that match, age that match, looks that match, et al. If a provider hides her age, the possibility is that she is older than I desire. Or that she is underaged, making her of no interest to me from the perspective of her providing services to me.
