I'm a newbie and having trouble getting providers pick up their phones.

I'm wondering it's because my area code is from a different state.

Does this make any difference to the providers to see the number is coming from out of state area code vs local area code?

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...it sounds like you are "reaching" pretty hard at this point.

Are you a VIP here?  If so go to "Reviews" , then "New Reviews" and plug in your area.  Now look for recently reviewed ladies that have less than 10 reviews.  You now have a list of ladies who are "verified" and new enough that are more likely to see a Newbie.  Start calling and PM.  Get laid by a beautiful women

Do providers also use PMs on TER?  I didn't know that it was being used by the providers.

This is my primary means of contact with them, especially initial contact where I am letting them get to know me as a person and what I desire in a date.  A very few will indicate in their ads that they prefer to be contacted at their email address because they do not often log onto TER.  I missed hooking up with a wonderful provider last month because I fucked that up, she caught my PM after she left.

But yes, PM as the primary method of contact with a provider.  It makes it easy for them to then perform background on you as well..

Want don't you try posting on your local board looking for a date that is newbie friendly? Are you on P411? That helps the process in girls willing to see you because they need to feel safe as do you. The girls will contact you and/or post in response and that may help.

Some girls are understanding about your situation, others are not. I am not sure what you are saying in your attempt to contact them, it could be what you are saying or it could be just her. Some want phone calls, others want emails and/or pms 1st. I try to be as flexible as possible, within reason and if you are a gentleman. But of course I am nowhere never your area lol. I'd help guide you to someone that may be willing to see you, but I don't know much about that state.

Yes and no as far as the out of state area code. Some girls only want local guys because they want regulars, others only want guys who visit their area. Yes some girls are like this, not sure why though. Personally, it does not matter to me. The overall perception is most girls would rather see regulars, or potential regulars then the one time guy. I know this doesn't really answer your question but this may be how these certain gals do things or maybe not

Yes, we purchase vip and can read all the reviews as well.  
 

....Google your number, and see if that number is listed on a Blacklist, or DNS site, or has been used by another firm/company, etc, that would leave a lady apprehensive to visit with you.

   As an example, I am right of center in my political beliefs, yet when gentlemen Google my PO Box in DC, they find it registered to a very liberal organization.  I always get an e-mail asking if I know this.  I love it, as it leaves me anonymous.

   Not sure what else to tell you.  

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

Good thought. I had a gent calling for almost a year, & I would not pick up, as he was listed as an "86"(meaning he did something, such as NCNS/short $/cancelled last minute, etc). I finally answered one day on a whim/out of aggravation.. and after some discussion, turns out this was NOT the same gent who originally was in possession of this phone number. He provided me with his references and DC info, & turned out to be a great guy who I saw multiple times.  

Some ladies have "86's" going back YEARS... and this could possibly be the problem. The out of town area code does not make a difference. In addition, ensure that these ladies you are calling are one's who answer their phone, and are not e-mail/text only. I've had a number calling me for the last 2 weeks, 2-3 times a day, and will not leave a message.. even though it's specifically stated in my ads & website that I am text or e-mail only for initial contact.  

How do they tag numbers?  Just save it on their phone?