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Re: Old Provider contacted me..
johnnie005 1347 reads
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You know her, she knows you. Not talking rates over the phone was the professional thing to do, but when you two are in a more private setting you can discuss it.
Assume that the old rates apply and bring at least that much in the envelope.
Since she has gone indy the rates may have gone down, if this is the case then consider the above and beyond amount a tip. If the rates have gone up then be a gentleman and pay the difference.
Also, you are used to paying a certain amount for her time. If her rates have gone down I myself would continue paying the old amount, I mean, if she hadnt gone indy and she is an ATF you would have continued with that amount any way wouldnt you?
This is just MHO.

One of my ATF contacted me after not seeing her for about a month.  Last month I seen her 3 times and had a fantastic time.. I gave out my phone number as friendly gesture, because she was talking about going independant. I told her if she went independant to give me a call and we can hook up.

How can I tell if its a law enforcement setup? We spoke briefly over the phone and made small conversation. I told her I would give her a call back sometime next week because I was going out of town.  

Or am I just paranoid again. Can I get in trouble just for talking to an old friend.  This person was reviewed several times on ter.  Thanks!

shudaknownbetter1443 reads

You asked her to call & she did.  Nothing suspicious there.  However if it's a new arrangement, you should be alert that everything is discrete & nothing said "sex or money".  You both know why you're there.  Check that you're really alone, the room is secure.  
It's unlikely there's any problem.  If she's out on her own, she may have lost her customer base.  
skb

If the answer to either of these is yes, then relax.

If you are still on edge, suggest that she come to see you, rather than you to her.

If she demurs, then there could be something wrong.

What specifically makes you suspicious?

I'm never one to dismiss these suspicions as often there is something behind them.

If she breaks protocol by discussing sex acts or money over the phone or in emails, then that is cause for concern and I would not see her.

How can she be setting you up if you saw her three times last month?

johnnie0051571 reads

You have seen this provider three times and you think she could be LE or WORKING for LE?????
The question makes no sense.
If you had three encounters, ATF at that, I cant IMAGINE her doing anything to cause you trouble, unless you killed someone and they think she saw it.
Take it as a compliment, she wants YOU to help her with her with her going independant.
Plus lets not forget whats been previously said, you did tell her to give you a call.

... probably not.  Chances are she took what you said, and wanted to have your biz.  As long as she doesn't keep calling "begging" for your biz.  She notified you that she is independant and now it's up to you to call as needed.  That's a compliment that she appreciates you... and if she had got into trouble, most girls won't try to loose biz by helping LE.  We are on your side

I  Didn't know how to disscuss rates so didn't bring it up.  I guest if I call back and randomly choose a date, I should be safe.  Just paranoid!  Has many reviews on TER.

johnnie0051348 reads

You know her, she knows you. Not talking rates over the phone was the professional thing to do, but when you two are in a more private setting you can discuss it.
Assume that the old rates apply and bring at least that much in the envelope.
Since she has gone indy the rates may have gone down, if this is the case then consider the above and beyond amount a tip. If the rates have gone up then be a gentleman and pay the difference.
Also, you are used to paying a certain amount for her time. If her rates have gone down I myself would continue paying the old amount, I mean, if she hadnt gone indy and she is an ATF you would have continued with that amount any way wouldnt you?
This is just MHO.

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