I'd love to get your advice on this. I saw a provider's ad I was interested in. Looked her up on TER, and she has 4 reviews, all within the last few months. One thing I noticed was that the price on her TER profile and the price in her ad were different. But the reviews sounded good, so I emailed her.
She responded quickly, but gave yet another price (different from both the ad and her TER profile). Other than that things seemed normal. We exchanged a few emails setting up details of an appointment, and then she asked me to call her when I got a chance.
I called her a little while later, and I had to jog her memory about our email conversation. She quoted me yet another price (price number 4, now). She also said she required a full frontal nude photo of me "to prove you're not a cop".
What do y'all think about this? It's setting off an alarm for me. First of all, I've never heard of the "send a nude photo" screening method-- have y'all? Plus, how would that prove I'm not LE? And the four different prices thing --that's weird, right? They're all in the same ballpark, but why would she keep giving different numbers?
in general, we ask that you not send us nude photos ever. just as we see all that glory in appointments, we really do not need to stare at it on our computer screens
The bullshit with multiple rates is bad enough. But the nude photo? I don't care who or what she may be. Do not see her. There are more than enough good providers out there.
Best advice, move on. Never send a full frontal nude pic under any circumstances to anyone!!!!! The different price on different sites is not unusal, I see it all the time. If you have talked to her on phone and gotten different prices over the phone, I'd say amf, meaning Adios Mother Fucker. She ain't worth it.
Good point about talking price over the phone. I hadn't even asked, she just volunteered the info, so that's even sketchier. Out of curiosity, discussing price by email's a bad idea too, right?
Her reviewers all had a few other reviews (from 2 to 8). None mentioned the screening process. One additional review actually popped up since I posted the original post, and it didn't mention her screening either.
Posted By: mrfisher
At best, she is flaky, and who needs that? I guarantee you the price will change again before you'd be done.
Discussing money over the phone is a no-no, so she is not safe either.
The photo request is down right weird.
Were any of her reviews by TER members with several reviews?
Did any of them mention her strange screening process?
...Unless you want to send her a full frontal pic of Ron Jeremy, and say that this was what you looked like back in the 70's.
Seriously, I would pass on this one if I were you. Nobody asks for a nude photo to prove that you are not LE, I have never heard of that before. She is a flake, and yes, those are all red flags, you do have the correct gut feeling here, so go with your gut feeling.
As for women that are flakes in general, when they are a flake in the beginning, they will also be a flake every time you deal with them after that, so just move on and find someone else. Their loss is some other ho's gain anyway.
Even if she has good reviews, go with your gut feeling. Everybody learns that lesson after some experience, sooner or later.
It is bad to discuss rates over the phone, or by text or email. There are certain exceptions. See the thread right above this one, started by USU. Check out the posts by Swim, keystone, and myself. There are times when it is okay to discuss rates, but again the general rule is "no."
I have this guy who keeps contacting me that uses a "verification photo" technique.
He makes you take a picture of yourself in a specific pose that you couldn't have already. Of course, I refuse and remind him that I have already told him I won't do this each time he contacts me.
I told him that you verify that a girl is legit by checking her reviews written by other guys who have seen her.
He claims that he had several girls show up with positive reviews that didn't look anything like their pictures so he insists on doing this asinine method. I explained that no legit girl is ever going to do this and his process is weeding out high quality girls. He doesn't care. He trusts his own process.
Same with this girl. Maybe she got busted by an undercover who gave her fake references and she just doesn't trust traditional screening anymore. But she's scaring off legit guys with her crazy method!
Seriously, if you do proper research as you seem to... you should have all your questions answered before you book. That just isn't possible with this one. The nude pict is just dumb... or she only sees guys that are "her type" what ever that might be. It's just unprofessional. Time to move on. skb
and youve seen several well know providers here or datecheck or p411? THEN WHY SHE NEEDS A PIC, SOUND SLIKE SHES PLANNIN ON SOME FORM OF BLAKC MAIL SCAM! YOU SHOULD GET ON DATECHECK I GOT ON IT RECENTLY . THERES A DIRECT LINK ON MY HOM PAGE AND MANY OTHER GIRLS TO CLICK ON AND GET ON TO DATECHECK DIRECTLY ITS REALLHY A GOOD SYSTEM! TRY IT! OH AND MENTION ME SO I GET FREE PHOTO UPDATES XO YOU CAN CLICK ON DIRECTKLYFROM MY WARNING PAGE!!!! DONT LET THAT HAPPEN TO YOU AGAIN! YOU CAN SCREEN US TOO ON THESE SITES!
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