Is having providers miss appointment just part of the game?  I am speaking of well reviewed providers just don't show up.  Providers who I have seen in the past just don't show. Downer

Sorry man, it is a bummer for sure. Seems like for me it kinda goes in spells. Luckily I have one sweet local lady that seems to always be available for me in a pinch...kinda like a reserve.

Maybe you could have you a standby or find you one.

Good luck!! DB8

I have never had this problem.  Schedule changes yes, reschedule,
that too. But to be stood up by a lady  when someone is paying for HER time. This is absolutley inexcusable.  How old are these ladies.  Maturity comes with age and a respect for some one else's time too.You need to let us members know when and who is doing this.
Please give us a heads up...

If you are having a bunch of no shows of previously seen providers, is it possible its you?

Part of the game? Not for me. A cancellation is one thing but a NCNS with no explanation would pretty much cause me to lose interest in seeing a lady.  Fortunately I have not had a huge problem with it.

Some providers are habitual offenders, but you'll never know it from looking at her glowing reviews. Those were the times she bothered to show up. It's a weakness of the review system that there is nothing in the permanent record to indicate a penchant for flakey behavior.

Maybe she didn't have fun with you but she will take your money if times are hard.  You may be low on her totem pole and if a better offer comes along..........sucks to be you. If it keeps happening with the same lady, that's what it is. Move on.

Just Saying............ask a provider.

In just over a year I have had only one. Try confirming close to the appointment time. This has worked for me.

than the client is an idiot.

If I really, really want to see a particular lady I might put up with it one time.

NCNS is the ultimate in disrespect IMO. I would much rather hear some made up, bushit story than none at all.

I don't think the women should put up with it from the guys and I DEFINITELY won't put up with it myself.

In answer to the OP. Yes it is a part of the business, but just like B&S and upselling, it shouldn't be.

Lots of things can go wrong on either side.  But whom ever doesn't make it has an obligation to be curtious & let the other know at the first opportunity.  One Fav lady I really wanted to see & she said I could visit but I know the opportunity was tight...  enroute the weather went South & the interstate became a parking lot.  I tried callinbg her immediately buit she did not pick up (was in the shower).  Third try was when I was due to arrive (I was stationary, in the high speed lane) & we cancelled & rebooked.
I read of a lady who was in an accident on her way to an appointment.  She could not call with a cop writing up the accident but did as soon as she was able.

I would expect to hear from her within a day unless she was hospitalized or some other really good reason.  I'd not give a second chance to waste my valueable opportunity.
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even on another forum if you have to
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It happened to me on my first try. I did my homework and spent weeks getting ready. We had emailed back and forth for days and she emailed me when she got in town and we confirmed for 3pm the next day. I still don't have her cell so I am looking for an e-mail that day and she finally calls at 1.30. She is very nice and says she is on her way. At 3pm she is not here so I call.. no answer. I leave a message for her to call me... she never does.
I figured it's a women's prerogative. I was a newbie and she must have changed her mind.

there are times when something comes up.  If I don't hear from the lady the next day, I will move on.