It is not uncommon for TER to hold a review for either a first time reviewer or a first time reviewee, especially if one or both have only one other review up.

In any case, before you throw in the towel, go and write to TER administration and ask what gives.

By the way, if and when you ever get two reviews up, you'll get free VIP membership to the tune of 15 days for each review you get published.

For the $ some spend on this hobby, $30 a month is a bargain for the research tools available.

Sorry pal, but you need to do that for at least a month.  It is very important that you be able to see the juicy details to do proper research.  Agree with curlyw, contact admin and try to get some more info about the review rejection.  If she is your first review, admin might be holding off on posting it until you submit another one.  I have heard that from others that had trouble getting a review posted.

Swim

If your "shes great in bed" is the juicy details then I can understand why you are having problems.  

You've got three options that I can see.

1.  Spring for a month of VIP so you can see how reviews are written.
2.  Pretend you are writing a letter to Penthouse and resubmit the review.
3.  Get you knickers in a knot because you don't understand and go home.

Your choice.  Put on your big boy pants before you decide.

Sometimes the review is outdated.  If you saw her more than 2 months ago (not sure on time limit) they wouldn't accept it because things might have changed by then.  They won't allow old data to be published.  The only thing I see about basic membership is that it allows you to post.  So canceling basic doesn't make sense.