I'm warming up to making my first appointment. I intend to see 3-4 highly rated VIP professionals providers with at least a year of reviews. I understand a certain amount of risk is inherent in this hobby, but I'd like to know more about reasonable expectations.
- am I safe to assume the provider is STD free?
- can they be left alone with my trousers with cash/watch/etc in the pocket
- is it safer - in terms of LE, to make a first appt in a neighboring state than my home state?
- if all I want is a 2-hr. lingerie show and heavy petting, can I still be busted?

I'm just a ChestNut looking for the perfect chest.

You can find it, its called "self-help center" located at the top right of the discussion board under newbie board or any other board. Here is a link attached inside.

- If she's professional, yes, but you still must use protection.
- Don't bring any valuables to an appointment other than the provider's fee.
- All else being equal, home or away makes no difference.
- Yes, any sexual activity for pay can get you busted.

These answers are oversimplified, so others may want to fill in what I've left out.....or disagree completely!

In addition to reading the Self-Help Center links, you can find many past discussions of most of these issues using the board's Search function.

I'm still a newbie too, so take a veteran's word over mine, but here is my opinion.

If you are seeing a provider with over 1 year of reviews and at least 1 positive review in the last month, you should not have to worry about being robbed, LE, or where to have the appt. She is running a business and she has many verifiable references. You should be fine. As far as STD's I'm not really certain, but I think that is always a risk. Use a cover if you are that worried. I know there is a tendency to worry about LE but if she is that well reviewed, chances are you will be ok.

Like I said, newbie opinion. You'll have to roll the dice at some point.

- am I safe to assume the provider is STD free?

Assume she is not clean , and proceed accordingly.

- can they be left alone with my trousers with cash/watch/etc in the pocket

Assume she is a thief or has a pimp ready to rob you and protect yourself accordingly.

- is it safer - in terms of LE, to make a first appt in a neighboring state than my home state?

Assume LE is monitoring you everywhere you go and do nothing illegal, ever.

- if all I want is a 2-hr. lingerie show and heavy petting, can I still be busted?

Do Not Assume on this. The fact is that you can be arrested and charged for knocking on the door of a woman who is known to LE as a prostitute.

Don't believe anything that anyone tells you different, unless they can say they somehow have worked with LE which includes cops and prosecutors.

I'm totally serious on this shit.

Have fun! Play safe!


HalfHour