hi, i am new to TER and i have some of the escorts in my mind in Orange County.
The escort wants me to provide at least 2 references.
but the problem is that this is my first time and I do not have any references...
i want to get started on this HOBBY but seems like its pretty tough.
any help????

Try using your job or employment as a reference, some ladies allow this.
Good Luck..

Jako,

I am in the same scenario to a certain degree. SexyTony is 100% correct on her suggestion. I emailed some providers and provide them with my info. Name, age, ht, wt, address, employment, work phone, etc. ALl of them were gracious enough to reply to my email. I was fortunate enough to meet with one in Vegas recently, my first experience with a provider. Take a look at my post on this Newbie Board-"A Probie's Tale." Another way to get intro is by joinin the chat room here. A lot of the providers stop by and chat. A great way to get to know them a little, even if it is just by chat.


Hoss1215

I'm sure that several ladies would be willing to work around your lack of references, so that you would have a reference or two with which to use in the future....

RM36

joining one of the verification sites like Date-Check or Preferred411. You give all your screening information to them, and then it's off to the races. You'll find a lot of ladies on those sites who will see first timers. After you see a couple of ladies, then you have the references you need to see the ladies who are not members. It usually only takes a couple of days to get verified.

Good luck

PLease explain "back channel" Also noticed PM assumed private message. Is that how the envelope works?

services are often (not always) acceptable to providers.

If I may interject; you can always visit an FBSM provider first to get known by someone. Screening is usually less intense because we are operating under the guidelines of the law ( for the most part). Make sure it is a lady that will provide a reference for you and has a nice attitude (preferably gives a great massage!). I have many first-timers come to me asking for references and  I am always happy to give them, but I do require a verifiable work phone #. This little education will cost you about $150 but the relaxation and health benefits are outstanding.    But be careful!  Don't fall in love, massage is addictive!  You may never want anything else.........

Ok so here is a question that has been stopping me from doing anything here. I still haven't gotten my first time with a provider yet and am a little worried about giving my work number. Will they call my job asking for me? I'd like to keep this a secret from my job.