Try using your job or employment as a reference, some ladies allow this.
Good Luck..

Jako,

I am in the same scenario to a certain degree. SexyTony is 100% correct on her suggestion. I emailed some providers and provide them with my info. Name, age, ht, wt, address, employment, work phone, etc. ALl of them were gracious enough to reply to my email. I was fortunate enough to meet with one in Vegas recently, my first experience with a provider. Take a look at my post on this Newbie Board-"A Probie's Tale." Another way to get intro is by joinin the chat room here. A lot of the providers stop by and chat. A great way to get to know them a little, even if it is just by chat.


Hoss1215

joining one of the verification sites like Date-Check or Preferred411. You give all your screening information to them, and then it's off to the races. You'll find a lot of ladies on those sites who will see first timers. After you see a couple of ladies, then you have the references you need to see the ladies who are not members. It usually only takes a couple of days to get verified.

Good luck

services are often (not always) acceptable to providers.

If I may interject; you can always visit an FBSM provider first to get known by someone. Screening is usually less intense because we are operating under the guidelines of the law ( for the most part). Make sure it is a lady that will provide a reference for you and has a nice attitude (preferably gives a great massage!). I have many first-timers come to me asking for references and  I am always happy to give them, but I do require a verifiable work phone #. This little education will cost you about $150 but the relaxation and health benefits are outstanding.    But be careful!  Don't fall in love, massage is addictive!  You may never want anything else.........