Newbie - FAQ
While I completely understand your nervousness, I assure you that you need not be. I do recall one lady posting a thread about her preference for height/weight proportionate clients only. I do respect her right to set her own preferences, but she is absolutely not the norm. She also, as I recall, got pretty well roasted by most responses LOL.
Good hygiene for understandable reasons is a priority for most women, but the number on the weight scale simply isn't.
If I can offer one reassurance though, it is this. I've met some gentlemen who have confided a similar feeling, and have said that one of the reasons they choose a provider like myself (older, overweight as well), is because they feel less self conscious about their own appearance that way. I understand that, and perhaps that is one way for you to feel more comfortable with your first experience. But I also want to add, as I've told other men, you need not limit yourself in your choice of provider out of nervousness about your appearance. Part of the professionalism of this occupation is to welcome gentlemen without judgement, and treat them as a man deserves to be treated, regardless of your physical appearance. Ladies who possess this skill can be easily identified by the glowing reviews they have to show. Not every man looks like an adonis, if her reviews make you think every man who reviewed her must have been an adonis, then she's the lady for you 