After being on TER as a newbie, I got a lot of help from VIP'ers on how and why to join. They also gave me tips...(and I'll ask more).
I'm a lonely 55 year old dude who had 3 women destroy my life. Emotionally, financially, and psychologically. (bet I spelled that wrong)
But, the real reason I joined?
I joined Match.com for a year and nothing...nothing that is but scam artists flooding my email with garbage. And not one real dat possibility.
I joined POF.com and much the same result. Scammers or broads looking for GQ guys or a fast buck prince!
I joined AdultXXXDate.com a spinoff of adultfriendfinder.com and though a nice site, has not given me what I need.
So, like any other guy my age that needs to get sex out of his system to hopefully concentrate on normal day life, I figured. I ain't rich, I may only be able to afford this once in a great while. But, these are women that will indeed provide me service.
I see the VIP'ers are friendly and willing to help me.
I don't want to get arrested, robbed, or swindled...my god I had plenty of that already.
Frankly....I want to feel a woman's body again....the warmth...to feel like a man again!!!!
I thank you for reading my admission. I appreciate the support I know I will get.
And I really will be counting on the true reviewers of these ladies. I hope you don't mind my questions.
I will offer any information in return....with what little I have financially.
But, enough of the dribble!
LEAD ME TO THE FLESHY ARCHES GENTLEMAN AND LADIES!
LET ME ADVENTURE BEGIN................
Thank You!
(oh yeah....just got the 30dayer to try out.........lol)

Bud:

I am sorry to hear about the bad luck with woman. Comedian once said, "Every 7 years I am just going to buy a house and give it to a woman I hate". I also paid the money for Match.com and found it a waste of time. I would like to know what kind of response are you getting from providers. I have contacted three and have only had one reply but it was a few days later and I was not available. I contacted her back and have never heard anything back. I am not outgoing, pushy or rude in my email and I never mention what I am looking for or money. If you have any advice this Newbie over hear would appreciate it. Of, I am recently divorced from a long marriage and I am in my 40's.

While in divorce court for the umpteenth time, the lawyer for her soon to be ex exclaimed to the judge that Zha Zha was a poor housekeeper.

"That's not true!" she blurted out.  "I'm a very good housekeeper.  After every marriage I've gotten to keep the house."

To the OP:

You've come to the right place.  Read the Newbie Manual, see well reviewed providers, and you'll find the happiness you've so long sought after.

Keep reading this board as well.

Let us know how it things go for you.

situation is on the darker side.

We can learn something every day.  Read the Self-Help Manual (top right near life saver), several pages here, and learn to use the search feature.  If you can't find the answer to the question you have, then ask.

Thank you

you are not alone.  There are a shitload of guys with stories similar to yours.  You have found the best site to help solve your problems.  As has been suggested, read the  self help center.  If you still have questions, ask them on this forum.  Best of luck to ya.  

Swim