Its hard being the new girl on the block

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about what you are having trouble with in order to offer suggestions.  Tell us where you are and what you need help with, and you might get some good ideas.  However, I would suggest you read the self help center, it has lots of good info for providers.

Remember, everyone was a 'new kid on the block' at some point in time.

Swim

Why post a general statement without including details, so you maybe able to get help?

 
For future posting new girl feel free to ask a ?, so you can gain advice from others who are here to help that is why it is called the FAQ board.  

Free advice: Get yourself a website there are plenty that are free to start.  The more information the better to market yourself.  You have nothing now.  Maybe get yourself a review here on TER by offering a special to TER members who, do write reviews.  Try meeting another provider in your area who may take you under her wing, or whitelist you here, so people know your solid.

Good luck & Happy New Year!

Every city is different. Atlanta has many well reviewed ladies already. Why would a hobbyist take a risk with an unknown provider. Atlanta has a very active law enforcement. That's why both new hobbyists and providers in Atlanta have a tougher time getting in the game.

The more you post on the boards the more likely someone will see you. The trick is getting your first review after that it will be a lot easier.

Have you thought about joining an agency for a month or two. That's one way I know new providers in Atlanta get started.

iim in Atlanta. I just want to be independent. I have a couple of clients i see here and there but they not on the site. I know its hard trusting someone new because of some of the bad rap other girls do or hobbyist do. I had 2 of them joined so hopefully at least they reviews can be on here.

Thanks i will try to look into that, I already have my website up but running a special for TER members is a great idea! I will try to do one asap!

When someone reviews you for the first time. You will get profile that your first reviewer will create. Depending on how much he fills out is important because the services he checks off will appear in your profile. All other reviews will not replace your profile with additional menu items. However, you can submit a problem report to TER and they will fix it.

Once your profile is created you get limited VIP. That way you can read your own reviews in the full.

Also think about how you want to market yourself. Are you a GFE or fetish friendly? There is niche markets you may want to explore.

oh ok i see now! Im just waiting now to see if the magic will work.

delays approving the reviews until a new reviewer can establish some cred.

I heard about that. i get it it the more reviews the better but there should be an easier way to get reviewers. Like who to talk or see that will be a guarantee review for us newbies.

hold back reviews from new reviewers on new providers, until repeats are posted.  Not always, but often if both parties are new....They want to make sure one or both parties are legit.

Swim

I am sure that will help improve your business too!

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Not all members write reviews, and not all are true gents.  Some will say they will review you & never do.  Are you relying on TER to screen these guys for you?

Maybe try offering a special only to TER members who have been whitelisted.

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because it's hard to step up.  Better to offer 'bonus time'...  so for 1/2 hrs rate get full hour or 1 hrs rate get 1 1/2hr.  Half hours are usually 3/4 of full hour cost anyway (in my area).
 
Guys who start at intro special rate...  need to know 'only first visit'.  I've seen such an ad recently.  One gal had me at intro rate for nearly a year & I was already bumped it to what I'd give any other gal.  

Offering discount for reviews is not good.  no way to know if you'll get the review & TER might not post it.  Not required to.  Advertising on your local ad board in accordance with the rules (1 per 7 days only) is more likely to bring in members.   Also participating in conversations helps to ease concerns about you.  Remember you are MODERATED.  We all were to start.  After 30 days or so & some posting, you can request to be unmoderated.  Threads you start may look like an ad & get moved to ad board.  Be careful.  Replies should be safe.  Even if your replies are slow to go up, they will be read & count toward your posting history.

The biggest thing about unknown providers.  Pictures must be REAL & recent.  You do not need to show your face.  IMHO, photos need not be explicit but taken in total, I want to see what you look like naked.  You can use a variety of dress & undress, props.  I see way too many butt pictures.  No photoshop!  You can choose your best pictures.  
There are guys for every body type...  Staying in shape makes it easier.  Sometimes great services can offset or partially offset less attractive features.  

You need to provide the services you promise.  If your profile (set by your first reviewer) is wrong, file a problem report to get it corrected.  Nothing pisses a guy off than expecting one thing & getting another.  It's pretty common for a gal to get a profile which says she does give BBBJ which a lot of guys want.  Then she stops offering it.   Eventually the details of reviews will reveal it.  

Gals need to be great actresses.  They need to pretend the guy is her BF for the time they are together.  It is an art.  Some just can not do it.  This is not something to be ashamed of.  This business is not for everyone.  I am friends on some level with every gal I see more than once.  

Gals need to great time managers.  They must keep things moving to get everything in during the time available.  I've seen hidden clocks...  to the side of the bed.  (One gal I'd seen over a year before I realized the travel clock was always in the room we played in.)  
Some gals have music play lists...  choice of tracks...  but each has a time so she knows how long.  
Some just have a good sense of time.
TV is very low class unless it's porn...  and some don't like porn...  some do.  

I suggest trying to have a half hour minimum between clients to rest, shower & anything else you need to do.  An hour is better.  It gives you flexibility is someone is late arriving or you run over.   Sometimes things will get jammed up.  It happens.  

Please try to stay away from excessive alcohol or drugs.  Gals with these problems make unreliable providers & sometimes make bad choices.  Providers need to keep their wits about them at all times.  

Many check the donation while he is washing up...  even suggesting he wash briefly.  Some don't move it but others do.    

Hopefully you can have a happy provider career with no troubles.  I have heard of providers using the bathroom as a refuge of last resort...  locking themselves in in an emergency.  Better if you have a phone in there with you.  

Just another thought...  What would you do if a client has a medical emergency in your location?  Most gals plan to call 911, unlock the door & do first aid to the limits of their ability.  When EMS arrives, you flee to the bathroom with your clothes.  
I had a provider who had an asthma attack while I was there.  She used her inhaler but I stayed until I was sure she would be ok.  It was the right thing to do.        
   
Try to be an honest provider, give good service & you'll do fine.

My name is Ashley Ann Taylor and if you have any questions, concerns, or need to talk feel free to contact me anytime.

Having provider friends is important, and you have one now.  I have a lot of other friends in the industry I can introduce you to as well.  So, you maybe the new girl on the block but you are not alone!

I have helped numerous girls get a leg up in the industry and have a reputation for doing just that, so feel free to pick my brain.  There are a couple easy marketing tricks to attract a lot of attention.

Best of luck!

Regards,

AAT

no i currently dont. Im trying to get some reviews but it look like its harder then what i thought