So, if you are gentleman enough to request to "use" a providers shower upon arriving...Is it rude or acceptable to also use some of her soap (if available).  I know I'm gonna get nailed for this one, but its an honest question.  I'm new to this and may need to "use" my next providers shower upon arrival and I don't want to be a complete idiot about doing so.  Thanks in advance....

Certainly she should have soap & towels available...  believe me, she wants you squeaky clean!  If you want to shower after a session you might want to bring your own brand so you'll not end up with a different scent arriving home.  Some guys will shower at the gym after to save the time & also to 'splain the fresh shower.
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usually when I have incall, I have separate soaps for the guy to use. I keep mine put away and collect the mini bars of soap when traveling. I'm sure that she will assume that you're going to use soap, so if she doesn't say anything, its ok to use it. I'd rather my soap be used than put my face near stinky balls Just don't rub it directly through your butt cheeks and you should be good

Thanks for the replies.  Hygiene ranks at the top of my list (for both me and her) and I couldn't imagine a visit with a provider without being "squeaky clean".  I can only imagine the horror stories from the provider end about clients not taking so much care.

I offer a shower to my clients, I provide them with fresh clean towels, soap and shampoo if they wish. I think I can speak for most providers when I say, please use the soap.

that you do, and one lucky day, you'll have a provider join you in the shower. That is a real treat.

I like to be clean too, but my concern is always the bar of soap. I don't know who used the soap or where is was used (ie. ass, balls, etc.). I rpefer to have liquid body wash. Pleas ladies do not have to floral scented body wash. Have to body wash that are for men.

Cherry Girl, this probably means you are not a rimmer.

LOL yeah, its ok to use our soap. Some ladies even have the foresight to keep a bottle of a manly smelling type soap on hand so that you don't wind up smelling all foo-fooey and girly after your shower. Can't have you going back to work smelling like flowers

You are correct, I would not want to use a bar of soap that someone else has used. I keep liquid body wash that is unscented for sensitive skin.

If you come from work, or the gym or you just want to freshen up before our encounter by all means PLEASE use whats ever in there to make yourself comfortable, there are fresh towels, deodorant to make yourself feel great! I welcome this for all my Gentelmen that visit me!
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lmao.. providers who have incall... Usually have it set up to use products.

I think she was saying don't wipe the BAR of soap directly in your hole, unless you throw the bar away.

Get a foam going on your hands or throw away cloth and clean yourself.  Rinse your hands off, then wash them again.

I never got the "I shouldn't smell like a woman" thing.  I want to smell nice things and since I'm around my self all the time the smell might as well come from me!

I'd rather smell a woman's scent, woman's perfume, woman's soap ... ... so I use that on myself so I can smell it.  Of course, I'd rather get the smell the old fashioned way ... fucking for it!!

I don't have a SO to worry about, so I don't have to 'smell like a man'

I just bring in my gym bag with my own soap, deodorant and towel.  That way I always smell the same when going home as if I went to the gym.  Also for providers working incall in hotels/motels, getting towels is sometimes an issue.

along with a wash cloth (that most men ignore) and a towel.  

I also have unscented spray deodorant, disposable combs and toothbrushes here locally.  On tour I can't drag all that stuff around.

I would think that anybody providing incall with any hospitality and common sense would provide similar items.