Recent personal issues have me desiring a provider.  However, the girls that look 'interesting' all ask for RS2K or other 3rd party verification.  I'm not comfortable with adding my contact details to 3rd parties listings, especially when all I really want is ONE girl to visit frequently (variety is great, but not for me - what 20 years of marriage does to you, I guess).  

I won't contact a provider whose ad specifically requests verification from a 3rd, as although I can respect their need to do so I don't want to be in a 3rd database.  

So the long-winded question is - would a provider be comfortable with verifying me herself?  That should be easy for her, as my name and data is all over the internet due to me being in an industry, which should easily demonstrate I'm not LE. Or would I just be placing myself in the "avoid" category?  Am I out of line on this?

Anyone that can refer me to a good provider in the NW Chicago burbs that would be more receptive to my situation would be great.

BTW - as a 'newbie' I find TER to be an excellent service and source of info.  Awesome job of protecting providers and their friends.

I'm not a provider but my experience is that many ladies offer 3rd party verification in order to speed the process for those in a hurry.  
I expect that many providers would accept your information & verify you themselves...  just be prepared to allow time for this to happen.  Some ladies might not be & in that case, move on.  
I can relate to the desire to limit your dates but frankly, I have found that unproductive.  I do best with a limited number of favorite ladies.  
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long enough, and you send out enough emails, yes, you will find a ldy who her own way of screening without having referrals. There are a lot of ways to verify that you are who you say you are, and some ladies use these tools very well.

If you don't have VIP membership here, I suggest that you get it, ($20) and put up a post on the Chicago board. With VIP, you can ask the ladies to send you a PM, if they are interested. You just might get a few bites.

... there is other ways to verify beyond the "norm" and I'm sure you'll find a girl who will be willing to do the such.  If you are willing to go upto Milwaukee, you can always check the Milwaukee ******** and go from there **wink wink**

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