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Re: If you have seen her before, the risk of seeing her at her incall is minimal...
jimjohn1399 1105 reads
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I was referring to reimbursing if she makes hotel arrangements,wine etc, not for an incall. But let me ask you more about the incall. This whole thing is expensive, and I would love to save the money on a hotel room and use incall. But it seems to me that it HAS to more dangerous. It is in a residential area. She explained to me how she handles it, no more than one client a day etc. I have no reason to doubt that she is careful and savvy, she has as much or more to lose than I do by becoming careless. But what about nosey neighbors, just her getting company at an awkward moment, boyfriend showing up etc? I can think up many nightmare situations. However, if we use a different hotel each time, that seems like the risk is almost non-existant, now that we know each other. Sure, I would love to save money, but I also don't mind paying a little extra for security. So...if you had to say for sure, is one safer than the other?? Sorry if I seem like a paranoid pansie

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jimjohn13992333 reads

First...thank you to all who post on this board to help us new guys out. It was invaluable to me, so much great advice. I would have made several mistakes, if I had not done my research here first.

I had my first encounter last Friday. I had made arrangements with a very well reviewed provider who turned out to be exactly what I was looking for. She was the right age for me, mid 30s, beautiful, easy to talk to and provided great service (that sounds so cold, she was just plain great)I was hoping to get lucky the first time, and find someone that I liked, and could get together with every now and then. I think I succeeded. We have a second meeting scheduled in several weeks.

I do have one more question. She has offered to arrange for the hotel room next time, so I don't have to stress about it. Is there any down side to that? She does have an incall, but that makes me nervous. Not anything about her, but from an LE perspective...it seems riskier to me. But I am thinking, if she gets the room, wine etc, takes care of most of the details (I reimburse of course), all the better for me. Is this common practice? It was very stressful for me to set everything up this time, but worth it for sure.

Once again...THANK YOU for all of the great help.

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Crazy Diamond1056 reads

Unless she (or you) is being careless, LE risk to you is almost non-existent.  As for visiting her incall, you should not be reimbursing her for that...that s/b built into her rate.  Bringing extras such as wine, champagne, etc., should be on you, though.

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jimjohn13991106 reads

I was referring to reimbursing if she makes hotel arrangements,wine etc, not for an incall. But let me ask you more about the incall. This whole thing is expensive, and I would love to save the money on a hotel room and use incall. But it seems to me that it HAS to more dangerous. It is in a residential area. She explained to me how she handles it, no more than one client a day etc. I have no reason to doubt that she is careful and savvy, she has as much or more to lose than I do by becoming careless. But what about nosey neighbors, just her getting company at an awkward moment, boyfriend showing up etc? I can think up many nightmare situations. However, if we use a different hotel each time, that seems like the risk is almost non-existant, now that we know each other. Sure, I would love to save money, but I also don't mind paying a little extra for security. So...if you had to say for sure, is one safer than the other?? Sorry if I seem like a paranoid pansie

-- Modified on 5/4/2010 11:32:04 PM

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fallonkelly1189 reads

Yes, it is a very nice gesture for her to make all the arrangements.  Especially when she has a perfectly good incall sitting there.  

It is suggested to help her out with the added expense of the hotel room, but not required.  

BUT you will score major points if you do.  

Have fun!

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swimtrekr687 reads

If she has a perfectly good incall location, and is going to the extra expense of a hotel room, then you should at least offer to share the expense with her.  Or cover it yourself, since it is your fault she is doing it.  And you will score some good points with her by offering.

Swim

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shudaknownbetter711 reads

If you have met her before & all went well, there is little risk on anything changing.  She may know of a hotel that is easier to navigate without drawing attention.

IF she obtains the room solely to see you, then it would be expected for you to reimburse her in cash.  Her obtaining the room, saves you making a paper trail, giving your CC to the hotel to guarentee the room.

You should never leave a provider in possesion of a room you have rented in your name.  She could host others, run up a tab (mini-bar or room service or damages) even if you paid cash, these would be legally charged to your CC... creating the paper trail you were trying to avoid.  

If she has a room and sees more than one, it becomes an incall.  Some providers may use a hotel for first meeting & if she wants to see them again, directs them to a fixed incall location.
skb

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