Though I'm still a newbie, I have seen a few providers and have had an excellent time without any negatives.  Two "WhiteLists" so everything must be going "OK".  None of the providers I have met even considered a meeting based on my account status with Date-Check or P411.  Full blown verification process each and every time.  My question is, at what point do you stop maintaining your Date-Check or P411 accounts and just go with the referals and "Whitelist" history?

When you decide that you are only going to see the girls that already verified you though date-check, p411 and TER whitelist.  

If you want to see someone new, then you need your verification

I have seen enough ladies and have two very strong references by indies. However, the last 3 ladies I've seen took my Datecheck without any other info needed. Quick, easy so I'm sold on the service it's provided.

Hope that helps!...DB8

What can I say, I'm cheap.  I never seem to have a problem getting approved by an escort Im seeing for the first time. I give the escort refeences and Im white listed. I usual arrange things a day or two in advance so the new escort has time to check me out. Hope this helps, good luck

I was interested in seeing two providers.  Both advertised that they accepted Date-Check.  Both had what I call "Booking Form" verification forms on their websites (i.e., verification forms that look like LE simply took their booking form and loaded it onto a website).

I emailed them both and noted that they accepted Date-Check.  I asked, very politely, if they would accept a Date-Check number in lieu of their verification.  I apologized for being a pain.

One emailed back and said that she would be happy to take Date-Check in lieu of her form.

The other did not respond.  However, I learned that she is taking a hiatus from the business to spend Spring Break with her daughter and clear her head a bit.

The point is, you may want to keep Date-Check and shop for a provider who takes Date-Check and who requires little else.  Exhaust your alternatives before you fill out a Booking Form verification.

Somebody on this Board gave me a piece of good advice, so I'll pass it on to you: It's YOUR information, not hers.  Keep it that way.

Since Date-Check is a lifetime mambership, and P411 is only $69 per year, I think they are well worth the money. Don't forget that the more referrals you get on each of those sites, the easier it becomes for you to see new ladies, especially if you do a lot of travelling. Their referral feature works the same as the whitlist works here.

and have had no reason to be sorry.

Sure, sometimes it doesn't help, but many more times it does.

Me personally, I would be more than happy to accept Date-check, however I do still ask for the basic information on the form to be filled out.  Not always do I get it and sometimes I don't bother with the form, however I still have my reasons.  Having your legal name allows me to still check your id when we meet (oh yes, I will still do this always and forever but I don't keep your information). Also, having your cell number allows me to know it is YOU calling me and not someone else.  I don't feel my simple requests are out of the ordinary when coming to the verification services system.

Some ladies will still require other information so that they remain safe and comfortable. It is a ladies choice....and of course the man's choice to skip over that lady....

As far as your last comment, yes you are correct it is your information but please remember this....
we are here to provide a service to you AND keep us safe and comfortable.  Without any information we cannot know that. Oh yes, we still take risks, just like you guys do.  I think it is a 2 way street..My take is if you won't give out some information to the lady who is requesting it then don't waste her time.  I have had at least 3 guys this week who I have tried really hard to work with to find out they won't budge.  It is a HUGE time waster for me and quite frankly really bugged me..so just be safe and wise....

Around here I find very few ladies who are members of either, and very few who will see me based on whitelist.  The good ones all verify themselves or see me by direct referral from another lady.

It varies a lot around the country though, and even within an area, the ladies who use those mechanisms may be a significant minority.  Depends where you are and who you're looking for.

You might want to see a provider that is not a member of TEr.. seems like you are doing great..

I just got lifetime membership to DC. only $125 easier that way.

Swim