Many providers give special consideration both to scheduling times and sometime special pricing to what they view as their regulars.
What is the frequency of becoming a regular? Once a month or more. Do you commit to the next appointment while you are with her so just say I want to see again in two to three weeks?

I'd say after about 2 months of seeing a Provider on a steady basis. My steady basis was seeing her once a week for about that time. I still continue to see my current Provider at least once a week. Never make an appointment and then cancel. Unless it's for a very good legitimate reason.

For example, a local gal might not consider you a regular unless you see her monthly, but a traveling gal who come to your city 2-3 times a year would consider you a regular if you see her at least 2 out of 3 visits.

Whether or not you get any special consideration for being a regular is unclear.  Some gals do have discounted rates for super-regulars, but that is almost like a sugar-daddy situation.

You might get her to bump another date for you, but you'd probably not even want to hear about that.

And of course there is the highly vaunted "Off the Clock" time but that is a very nebulous thing at best.

The best part of being a regular is getting to see a very good provider frequently in the first place.

You're going to get responses that cover the full spectrum here I'm sure, but for me it's always been about total spend rather than frequency per se.  

What do you consider to be the benefits of being a regular

If you enjoy seeing her, then see her as frequently as your schedules and your budget will allow. If it stops being fun, then stop. Pushing for special privileges for being a regular is a quick path to killing the fun.

Some providers openly discuss on their sites what they consider a regular and what benefits that brings, with many others its completely informal and subjective - basically depends on if they like you as a client.  

as soon as mutual trust is established..

There is no set formula, it depends on how the provider perceives you.  I would say a minimum amount of visits is once a month, with no cancelling, etc.  Whether or not there are any perks to being thought of as a regular, again that depends on the provider.  She may give you a special rate, or some OTC time, but there is no set rule.  You could set up the next date when getting ready to leave the current date, or contact her shortly when you both have  better idea of what your schedules are.

There's no standards...  her business, her choice.  And she probably won't tell you if she has a "rule".  
If you like her, it's nice to say "I'd like to see you again." but probably not easy to book that far out.  So she'll say "Call me"  

Short answer: I'm looking for some sort of dispensation that makes me feel special, or the credible illusion thereof. I don't have a checklist, and it's not about the money.

And I couldn't give two shits less about what peeves you. No, really. I couldn't.  

and use small words such that even a hapless dolt like yourself can understand. Pussy *is* a commodity. The woman it happens to be attached to is not. I pay handsomely for experiences with fantastic women who know how to engage with more than just their mouths, hands and genitals. I don't expect someone like you to understand this. You have your flat-backer business model, and that's fine, but don't come in here posturing yourself like you represent the high end.

this is the reason I don't see the same lady if she doesnt give me what I want or like.  

in your experience how often do traveling ladies contact you that they'll be in town?

and I certainly understand it in the context of discounts and such...
but for me, in my 2 years hobbying I've yet to see any lady more than 3 times (though several fall into this category), so I look at this differently.  I have several ladies who I consider to be "my" regulars, basically meaning, I've seen at least twice and plan to see again sometime.  While seeing a lady 2 or 3 times a year I suppose might not make me a "regular" by a typical provider definition (from the business point of view) it still fits the definition of it for the way I hobby.  I'm always greeted with a big smile by a sexy lady who of course remembers me well.  Hell, if I see a lady  2 or 3 times a year, that's more than I see a lot of people I consider friends, or certainly relatives, lol.  Also, I dare say if I see a lady 3 times in a year, that will easily be 10-15% of my hobbying budget for the year.  I'm sure a lady would consider a gent to be a regular if she got 15% of all HER income from him.  ;o)

Traveling ladies who I've made a connection with and have seen on a regular basis, ALWAYS contact me when they're coming to down.  I guess that's the definition of a regular for them.  Often it's the day before an ad runs to give me rights of first refusal, or even they day they run their ad as I don't often scour the ad pages.  They want to let me know they're coming in case I don't see the ad.

but that is because I'm usually contacting them.

I like to keep up with their blogs on their websites, and while there I check out their touring schedules, and when I see Boston on the list I drop them a line.

I'm sure that any traveling gal would be happy to contact a client but only if that client has expressed an interest in getting such communication.  Many guys resent getting unsolicited contacts and quality gals know and respect that.

e given it a bit of thought.  I've been seeing a lovely gal on what I think is a regular basis (23 hours in six months).  We enjoy our time together and IF she did offer me a "special rate", even though I would greatly appreciate the thought, I would still continue to compensate her at her advertised rate.

i swear you are sounding more and more like LR everyday..

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

show us precisely how you submerse yourself in the high end escort world...with your handle that shows your reviews of such.    
   
 I have no need to detail my adventures, as they are plentiful known and appreciated.  Not having to advertise to great extent is an appreciated comfort, as my friends well know.  But nice try with the attempt at slandering my brand.  
   
 Good luck and best wishes to you, always.  I must go now!    

I have had 3 separate providers consider me a regular after only 2 visits.  

Or did you forget that? 40 likes I believe that post got outing you, then both numerous well respected hobbyists AND providers trashed you in that thread.  

but your actions belie your words Corrine. You don't have a bit of credibility on this subject, and you should really stop digging this hole any deeper.

That said, this really is not the place for you to be picking fights once again. I am only commenting to make sure the newbs get the other side of the story. Let's either drop this subject, or take it to another board. I am sure client number 9 would be more than happy to tell you "how he really thinks" on a more suitable board.

I don't like getting bcc emails or monthly "reminders"  i can  just look up their tour schedule.

Allow her to offer the benefits if she feels you have become a regular.

Just stumbled upon this thread. The attitude her is astounding. And equally astounding is how much time some self described top shelf providers have on their hands.