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Re: here it is
BellaRoseKisses See my TER Reviews 2149 reads
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1 / 18

I am just a bit confused and a little discouraged. I know that this is a waiting game, but I just wanna make sure I am covering all bases that a newbie can to get started. I know reviews are crucial in this world but I am waiting for two at least I think I am suppose to get them since it's been like a week. I feel kind of hopeless....Am I missing anything besides the reviews? I have a website, new pics I advertise....is there anything else??

Thank you in advance

Ms. Bella Rose
XOXO

joebunda90 12 Reviews 621 reads
posted
2 / 18

Just starting out can be tough.  Guys will promise to write reviews and not come through, guys will NCNS or last minute cancel, you will have your fair share of "bad" dates.  Don't get down on yourself.  If you are getting advice from a seasoned provider (mentor) and following it just keep on keeping on.  It will get better.  If you do not have a mentor, you should do a little research and reach out to a few select ladies here.

And BTW...there are a number of providers that don't have and don't want reviews...they are not the be all and end all of this world.

JB

Nolklylu 58 Reviews 526 reads
posted
3 / 18

Be patient and before you know it the reviews will start coming in . . .

ryan3504 15 Reviews 559 reads
posted
4 / 18
BellaRoseKisses See my TER Reviews 560 reads
posted
6 / 18

I dont think I am able to....but if you would like to see it I can pm you the address.

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 508 reads
posted
7 / 18

ya gotta be patient.  Since I don't know your reviewers, it's possible that if they are new also, admin has held them until either you get one from a veteran or they write another one.  Your website is fine, and you have the TER link on the first page just like the guidelines required.

Remember to post your weekly ad on your regional ad board.  It would also help if you post on threads on your regional board too.  That will let people get a feel for your personality.

Hang in there Bella.

Swim

will645 19 Reviews 503 reads
posted
10 / 18

I'll book two hours and write an absolutely fair review within two days.

Posted By: BellaRoseKisses
I am just a bit confused and a little discouraged. I know that this is a waiting game, but I just wanna make sure I am covering all bases that a newbie can to get started. I know reviews are crucial in this world but I am waiting for two at least I think I am suppose to get them since it's been like a week. I feel kind of hopeless....Am I missing anything besides the reviews? I have a website, new pics I advertise....is there anything else??  
   
 Thank you in advance  
   
 Ms. Bella Rose  
 XOXO

BellaRoseKisses See my TER Reviews 515 reads
posted
11 / 18

Big I will not compromise my screening process at all. Will I should see you in the near future. But if you are in the area Phila,De, or Jersey email me. Yeah I guess everyone is not as fast as you. I just like to vent a lot. lol

weipeikei See my TER Reviews 559 reads
posted
12 / 18

Your photos are good, but be sure to have some photos of you in clothing. Show him how you can look if you step out for dinner. It's all about appealing to a broader market. Not everyone is an in, bone, and out kind of guy. And appealing to those who enjoy an "experience" simply means more money for you and a better time.

Your rates are a bit low, and typically it's best to discount for longer dates, not increase unless you want to discourage longer dates for some reason? for example mine are 300/hr 550/2 and 750/3. The 200 400 and 700 doesn't make sense to me.

You also have an exotic look, and a little bit punk with the tats and piercing, emphasize that angle! It makes you unique, which is everything in this buisness. There are a million buxom blondes.

I'd be careful to keep your copy language on the site simple, straightforward and what you would use in normal spoken conversation, it'll make you more personable. While yes, you do want the 'I can carry a good conversation, I'm intelligent' vibe to come off, but the line "Yes, you perceived right.." comes off as trying too hard.        

Overall,  I like your site, it's clean, the colors are pleasing, the font is fine, and your photos are pretty good.

-- Modified on 8/3/2013 6:56:26 PM

macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 530 reads
posted
13 / 18

Bella..you look great..if i were in Philly,,i would TOFTT you in a heartbeat..the reviews will come..you just have to find the guys who like to write them..

Posted By: BellaRoseKisses
Big I will not compromise my screening process at all. Will I should see you in the near future. But if you are in the area Phila,De, or Jersey email me. Yeah I guess everyone is not as fast as you. I just like to vent a lot. lol

clarence37 37 Reviews 501 reads
posted
14 / 18
jaydalee See my TER Reviews 556 reads
posted
15 / 18

It is always tough when starting out most guys want a provider with reviews but how do you get business with no reviews?It is a catch-22.
Be patient it is always difficult waiting on your first reviews to appear but hopefully the guys who said they wrote reviews actually did.

Like others have stated if the guys are new reviewers it might take some time for those reviews to be approved.
Just keep advertising on your local board and participating in discussions here on ter and other boards so people will get familiar with you.
Best of luck to you!

impposter 49 Reviews 490 reads
posted
16 / 18

I do NOT think this suggestion would be good for Bella Rose, but I'll mention it for others to keep in mind. Bella Rose has definitely chosen the indy (independent) route with the web site, Date-Check and so on.  

Some prefer to get started with an agency -- be sure it's a REPUTABLE agency -- and learn the ropes and build up some reviews in their Profile.  After they're comfortable and confident enough to head out on their own, the info in the Profile can be changed to the personal indy website, new phone number and so on.  I think there's a way to change your name or add a name to a Profile, too.  

There are girls I know who have both an indy presence AND are represented by agencies in some cities where they tour.  Those agencies allow the girls to maintain their indy ID and persona and pretty much just help with booking and making arrangements, I think.  I don't know Philly well enough to make suggestions or I'd make some.  (I know several examples in NY and Boston.)  

You (Bella Rose) will get limited (free) VIP and be able to use PM (private messaging) once you have reviews, I think. Or, if you PAID for VIP membership you already have PM capability. CAN YOU SEND/RECEIVE TER PMs? I can send more info that way.

Good luck!

baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 545 reads
posted
17 / 18

Posted By: BellaRoseKisses
here it is
You're gorgeous.  Wish I knew about you when I was in Philly last spring!

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 549 reads
posted
18 / 18

I would never have a website that ends in "call girl files." You may as well just put "prostitute" lol. I also don't get the rate structure, but that's none of our business really. If that's what you want to do, guys will just call it "hooker math" as they do with any of us who has a rate scale they can't understand or can't afford. Also, all the men yapping about "where you should stop by" should pay to fly you there, or stfu lol. Yea, I said it!  

Offer an incentive for TER members who write reviews, but don't put that in an ad or offer a discount, as that is frowned upon. Use them to get your first 5 reviews, then hike the damn rate up like the rest of us bitches bwahahaha.  

Seriously, if you need any help, always free to talk via email. I can't possibly see the "wrong" in anything you're doing.

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