Newbie - FAQ

Re: help me do this right, please!angry_smile
Harry2008 1 Reviews 1496 reads
posted

Yeah, I was stopped by the hotel staff in the lobby to her room because their card key system was not working and my provider did not want to leave the room to get me in the lobby.  I had to answer some questions, which was really uncomfortable. Needless to say the provider was smart enough to change hotels. However her attitude toward me was less than courteous as she told me where her room was.

I felt like taking my money back that time.

I am going on my first out of town tour.  It's not much of a tour; I'm only visiting one city.  Those of you who have visited a touring lady, or ladies who've toured, I'd love some tips.  I have a great hotel room.  What else do I need?  I have also never done incalls, so I would like some help there.  

I figure I'll at least have a clean shower curtain and towels for my guests, lol.  Thanks!!


I noticed there has been no response to your ad yet. If you have the hotel already, it is important that you let everyone know what area you will be in - Tyson's, BWI, Rockville, downtown, etc. Also, what is the touring rate, is it the same as your local rate? I think you should always ask for pre-booking, maybe even offer a discount for those who do. With no reviews, if you can get a TER member with lots of reviews to see you early on, he can post a 'mini' review on the local board that may help you get more calls.

DC guys are spoiled, LOL. Try to have a romantic setting, take some little jar candles with you and turn the lights down low. Whatever you do, please do not leave the damm TV on... Something to drink is always a nice touch.  Just some thoughts.

more lights than low light??? I love to see what's in my face and hers..lol, along with the action going on in the mirrors, if present. If I could ware my glasses during the session, it would help but would break them for sure.
My SO likes it pitch black...go figure! That may also have something to do with my preference.
Low light and candles can be romatic but better left for a honeymoon than a wild and wooley sexcape! Sex in the dark to me is like dining in the dark. Don't you folks like to see what your eating and vice versa?? :)
JMHO

"Lights, mirrors, action"!

I can go either way, Chooch.  However, I do love having mirrors!  It's such a turn on to watch and do at the same time.

The 2 things I always double-check to make sure I have before going to an appt. is the little white envelope and condoms. In your case I guess you should ad a big flashlight.... just kidding

PS: I prefer the lights low as a kind gesture to the ladies. They tell me it is easier for them to pretend they are with a wonderful, handsome man...LOL

In the middle of 69, I turn on the flashlight. ROFLMAO

"They tell me it is easier for them to pretend they are with a wonderful, handsome man...LOL"

Did they really tell you that?? Are you really that ugly? LOL

So the way I figure it, the more I can do to help their imagination, the better the session goes..:)

I like more light rather than low lighting. I like to be able to see what is going on durin the session.  And yes, I also love mirrors!! lol

or so I have heard from ladies.  Married men would have difficulty visiting you.  

That said, staying downtown during the week can be quite pricey.

I hope this works out for you and we can see you as a regular visitor.

I've visited a couple of ladies who have had lightly scented candles and some nice soft mood music. Both have really added to the atmosphere.

Background music, low lights, a couple of candles, clean towels, and a nice welcoming smile. Always does it for me. Also, give guys directions through the lobby to the elevators when they arrive and call for the room number. You don't want them wandering around looking nervous and confused in the lobby.

shudaknownbetter934 reads

Lots of good tips above...  Tell them what entrance they'll be using. Ask the gents to call from their car, not the lobby.  Then supply them with not only the room number but the path to the elevator.
By all means have the TV off.  Some mood music.  I like candles, often gift my Faves with one.
skb

Yeah, I was stopped by the hotel staff in the lobby to her room because their card key system was not working and my provider did not want to leave the room to get me in the lobby.  I had to answer some questions, which was really uncomfortable. Needless to say the provider was smart enough to change hotels. However her attitude toward me was less than courteous as she told me where her room was.

I felt like taking my money back that time.

shudaknownbetter1085 reads

Harry,
Sorry this happened to you...  I'm sure she was upset.  Most ladies do not give the room number (or sometimes house number) in advance.  Did she have you call from your car to get the room number before you attempted to go up?  What the F do you tell Hotel Security at that point?   That is what should have happened & somebody did it wrong.  I hope it was not you.  

If it was her error, I hope she'll read this & correct the error of her ways.
skb

When I was questioned by the hotel security they asked me who I was going to see. I said to see a friend in Room XYZ and then they asked me for the name of guest in room XYZ, of course I only knew her first name. They said that it did not match their records.  So hotel security told me to call her and to identify you.  That was when the provider told me about the key card problem. At this point I understood why the hotel security was being cautious. At the same time, I don't understand why she could not just come and get me in the lobby. When hotel security talked with her, she forgot what name that I had used too. So needless to say the whole thing seems like a forever ordeal. At long last I was able to find her room and then the TV was on (Law & Order) no less.

Adventure in Hotel Washington ... you can check in but you can never enter!!!

Harry

How about a marching band, and maybe some sparklers to let me know I did really, really good.

Register Now!