I received some rather distrubing news this morning. My ex who I do have a child with came across my site. While I denied it, he has a print out of almost every page from my site. I went in as soon as he left & paused my site. I need some info on going UTR.

let's hope your site didn't have a link to your TER reviews ... & from there your email address gives a clue to your handle. Then  all it takes is a Google search on "Sexybunni812" to bring up all your posts...

Hi Sexybunni!

Perhaps I'm missing something, but what is so bad about your ex knowing this about you?

I mean is there a direct concern at hand - like that he might use that to "steal" your right to see your child etc...

Because all in all Sexybunni, if you're exchanging your company for money, then what's the big deal

Besides, you could so easily claim - not to him but in a legal issue - that the photos were taken and used dishonestly. Shoot you could even say that he did it, if you needed that kind of a twist of the case.

If he's been looking for a provider, then maybe he's been with one.  A lawyer could probably help you strategize, maybe get a private investigator.

What are the chances that he ran across her website by accident? He had to be searching for something.

You have more than 3 reviews.  You should have already asked TER to allow you access to that board and should have posted this question there.

You are not the first provider with a minor child to have the ex discover your business.  This is one reason to hide your face in photos and to have a cell phone only for business, or even better, use email.  However, if you have any web presence, a diligent enough effort might find you anyway.