First off, let me clarify what I am asking.  I have been corresponding with a provider in hopes of meeting her sometime in the near future.  Though this is all new to me, and I know I have made multiple fopas when emailing her or talking to her over the phone (at times, I felt like a real jerk for not knowing anything), she was always gracious and considerate.  It still blows me away thinking about it now.  I never felt like I was being seduced.  She never came across as trying to screw me just for the money.  She actually had some class.  For those of you who have already interacted with her, is she this real?  Is this a true class act?  From what I have talked to her, and emailed her, and read online, I have to say she is.  But I am terrible at judging character.  Any help out there?

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How could any of us possibly answer your question without knowing the lady?

OK, in general, most professional escorts are for real. In other words, they want your business and they will take a professional approach to getting it.  You are not being seduced, you are being solicited.  There is a difference.  The seduction starts once you are alone in a room with the lady.  

Make no mistake about something.  She IS screwing you for money but that's not a bad thing.  I'm not sure what sort of preconceived notions you have about how an escort should act but you need to check those at the door.  Most gals are professional, polished, intelligent and polite.  They expect the same from you and they also want your business.

many providers truly love what they do. You have found one of them. Run don't walk to see her!

You are there with her to enjoy an experience.

Do you question whether the chef at your favorite restaurant is in love with you when he makes your spaghetti carbonara?  I didn't think so.

Why do you hold this gal to a different standard.

Reality is over rated.

Just enjoy, damn it.

Don't over think it...there really aren't even that many questions to ask...how much (see ad)...where (she'll tell you when you book)...exactly where (call from the parking lot)...

I understand a little pre-visit conversation to build the mood but it seems like you two are becoming pen pals!

go with it, relax, and enjoy....

One of the pleasant surprises for me, upon entering this fun, crazy, "other world," lol, has been getting to know a variety of gents.  Not on an extremely intimate basis, and I don't have to know their shoe size (although one guy did send it along with his references, just in case), but just seeing men from all walks of life, areas, and who have different views and outlooks on life.  So, yes, I feel that I am "real," and I am down to earth and genuine in my communications with my "friends."  

I am not anyone's best friend, nor do have much extra time to be anyone's penpal, but I will return a message in a friendly manner and show an interest in who I am about to meet, because I truly want to know!

I have also been pleasantly surprised that some of my friends, who I never would have "hooked up with" in "civvie life" (for whatever reason: age group, different backgrounds, etc.) end up being those who I like the most, get along well with, sexually compatible, and most of all, they are gents who make me laugh.  I didn't know, all these years, what I have been missing!

So, yes, most of us are real and we are genuine, but we are also running a business, so don't expect a long email or phone conversation or off the clock dinner or drinks, but a little friendly banter back and forth through email is most likely real.

Now, isn't that a long answer to a short question?  That's me!  lol!

Good luck and HAVE FUN!

Angie
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You say, "You are not being seduced, you are being solicited".  In my communications with her, I don't get that.  If I felt she was just feeding me a line to get my money, I wouldn't be attracted to any woman, no matter how beautiful she was, who was just in it for the money.  I don't get that from talking with Classy Angel.  She comes across as a real class act, and I just want to know if that's real.  You tell me its an act - based upon your experience with other girls - though you apparently have no interaction with her.

Thanks for the input.  I take it you have met her.  She's not just playing the game.

Using your chef at the favorite restaurant analogy - if the chef personally prepared the meal, your analogy doesn't hold up.  A chef at your favorite restaurant is not personally involved in your patronage at the restaurant.  How many times do you ever see the person preparing your meal?  I more appropriate analogy would be with the server who brings the food.  Knowing that servers are working for tips, do you prefer a server who sincerely comes across as personally enjoying the interactions with you, or do you prefer an actress who knows how to push all the right buttons to get herself the bigger tips?

I am not looking at Classy Angel as someone who is going to "fall in love with me".  That is too unrealistic to even be in the realm of consideration.  What I am interested in is whether she cares that I am there beyond the size of my wallet.  I think she does, but then I don't know.

Isn't it common practice to engage in conversation prior to the actual meeting?  To me, any experience can only be heightened by seeing who the individual is.  If you just want to get off, go buy a porno...