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Re: Hard to please
filoniz 3 Reviews 2638 reads
posted
1 / 13

Newbie here, my question to all provider/season user who care to contribute to this question are as follow:

I have been a non-condom user since I could remembered started having sexual intercourse with my all partners.  Knowing full well that  it is a must for this industry.  I am not, not trying to use a condom but asking if anyone has tips for someone like me who had been spoil by not have to ever used a condom.  How to enjoy the experience of using escort service that require ones to use it.  

I also felt that with condom I am not feeling as good as with out using one and therefore have issue cumming.  A combination of lack of pleasure and I would also think it is psychological as well. I cum mostly by the thought of sexual act of it all then physical feeling itself so when using condom I tend to not enjoy the act.  I prefer skin to skin sexual act, I felt that with out this and having rubber between me and her is not truly real sex.  Sorry for the long post but with this combination I am having problem cumming and enjoying myself doing the sexual act except that I could look forward to BBBJ!!  Also want to mention that I don't have problem staying hard but due to how long it takes me to cum I might eventually loose erection do to exertion or lack of interest in the act!!  Worry myself and made provider worry that I may walk out of there not satisfied.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 973 reads
posted
2 / 13

I also find it somewhat hard to cum while wearing a condom, so while I might (not always) enjoy vaginal penetration with a condom, I remove it and finish in any number of fun ways including oral, facials, Russian (between or on breasts), Italian (ass crack) and on her stomach or thighs.

Of course, there is the good old fashion hand job, a most underrated experience.

Use some lube and have fun.

shudaknownbetter 2057 reads
posted
3 / 13

I was a young man at just the right time...  I caught the end of the swingin 60's & on into the 70's.  Civie girlfriends were on the pill & we just screwed our brains out...  which would be suicidal today.  
Not all condoms are created equal & some are very good.  I won't make any recommendations because I'm doing personal "research" on what works for me.  I will say that thin latex has my interest right now.  
I do agree that finishing with intercourse is not the only game in town.  Finishing by hand or BBBJ with porn style handwork is about the most intense effect I've had.
skb

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 1179 reads
posted
4 / 13

The two previous posts are from well respected hobbyists, so listen to what they said. All newbies come to the hobby with similar opinions as yours. Since the lady supplies the covers, you are at the mercy of what covers she has. The topic of clients supplying protection has been much discussed. Do a search on the board for posts on this subject. An online site with a great assortment of protection is condom depot.
You will eventually figure out what works best for you. Research on and good luck

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 919 reads
posted
5 / 13

Maybe it's due to may age but I had a fair amount of civvie sex with condoms when I was younger so going back to them when I started seeing providers was not that big of a deal. As I have gotten older however it has become just about impossible for me to finish inside a condom.  I always finish with BBBJ and fortunately I have found a couple of gals who really love BBBJ (as long as I reciprocate of course).

The key to enjoying yourself in this hobby is not to stress over things. If you can't, to a degree, forget about the money part and enjoy the moment you will in fact be wasting the money.

JustAGal See my TER Reviews 1520 reads
posted
6 / 13

They should help a bit. Still not bbfs, but helps a lot with your issues.


Lina

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 1061 reads
posted
7 / 13

Most of us guys, and probably the ladies too, would much rather have sex skin to skin.  However, as we know, that just ain't gonna happen with an escort.  I have found that I can only cum in the bag about 50% of the time.  And it does not matter whether the lady is a real fave of mine or a first-time visit.  Sometimes I can, and sometimes I can't.

But, a finish with a sensual BBBJ is always wonderful, and as was mentioned, even a well done HJ is pretty damn good.  I always enjoy the sex even when the condom wins and I don't fill it up.

Best thing is to not dwell on it and just relax and enjoy the moment.

Swim

keystonekid 114 Reviews 798 reads
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8 / 13
SaschaDoesIt See my TER Reviews 1226 reads
posted
9 / 13

Hm, I haven't seen this as an issue thus far but I haven't been doing it that long and my list of clients isn't that prolific.  

However, I'd say the same.  OP, this post is responded to by the upper echelon around here, the guys who know what they're doing and know what they're talking about.  Listen to them.

Besides, some of us girls love giving a BBBJ as much as ya'll like getting it (guilty hehe)!  Get a girl who really enjoys that as part of her menu and you can't go wrong!

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1133 reads
posted
11 / 13

It's close to Greece!

Honestly, that's it.

filoniz 3 Reviews 1020 reads
posted
12 / 13

Hi, I just want thank everybody for their two cents.  I guess it is more common than I thought!  Will try enjoying myself and not worry about it.  Female condom also sound pretty interesting!!

Thanks all!!

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 1821 reads
posted
13 / 13

I was wondering about that as well... hahaha...

Hey I have a few clients that try different brands constintly... so maybe you should and see what works for you... or try a bigger one so as not to cut off circulation or feel it on you...

Or the other stuff is good... maybe a oral finish or dirty talk and spray in different areas... I use to think a guy wouldn;t like to finish himself but was surprised at the fact that there are some who do... or they want an oral finish...  Gee even sometimes I have to masterbate to enjoy it because at that moment I will enjoy it more then anything.  So do not think you are in a boat by yourself.... We all have moments where certain things don't work and others will...

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