got burned a while back with the typical "I just need to pay my driver" scam. She originally said she drove herself. Then when I was naked, she HAD to pay the driver. She was a SMOKING little hottie and I got and I got carless. but any advice how to get what I want without it getting "ugly" And yes, I relize that I should have done incall throught this site...just got lazy

I would suggest it's not the fact that the girl had a driver but the girl herself.  There are many providers, really good and reputable providers, who use drivers, bookers, screening agents, and assistants.  The girl you saw, I'm guessing, is not one that has a good and consistent review history posted by decent and legit reviewers.

I realize it seems like a mine field when trying to decide things like - incall or outcall?  Is her incall location or hotel "hot"?  Is it okay that an assistant (or even a man) answers her phone - does that mean she's an agency, pimped or LE?  There's a 5 month gap in her review history - was she in jail?  Really, these issues aren't of great importance as long as you stick with providers who are professional and reputable.  I can't stress this enough.  It should simplify, and take much of the fear out of the process, if a person can wrap there head around it and hobby accordingly

There are hobbyists who have been doing this for decades and they all say the same thing:  Do your homework on the provider to ensure she's reputable, check the menu and reviews to ensure  she's a good fit for you...  and then enjoy!  

Good luck.

You got scammed...  there are lots of scams.  Get VIP, Read the reviews, that's why TER exists.  VIP costs far less than even one spoiled date or wasted opportunity.  
skb

its a bad scene when this happens for sure, my advice next time ask her to change into sum lingerie you have laying around and if she starts to decline ,theres your hint, beaware,shes up to no good, ive had many an outcall, if the lady agrees to change and get comfy im good if not shes asked to leave sum get gas money all depends on there mood.

its a fact there are sum bad scams.

you must post a bad review and let guys be aware,its your duty.please post a bad review asap.

I've never done an OUTCALL...  I'd have messed this up too.  If the lady tries to leave, you can not stop them unless you want to get charged with unlawful restraint &/or kidnaping.  But before any exchange takes place, show them to the bathroom to change...  get the candles out, music on...  but don't be naked.  Maybe pants & shoes only.  She how she reappears.

Maybe put the donation furthest from the door.
It's sad to have to think this way.  Seriously though, well reviewed providers should not be an issue.
skb

You answered your own question in your last sentence.

Good grief, that has rip-off written all over it.  I remember a similar experience way back in the day...got to the room, session started with BBBJ, the lady refused to undress, then stated that she had no condoms, and that she would go downstairs and get some.  I told her not to bother, just finish what she was doing.  She protested, but complied, all the way to CIM.  And she took her top off to boot...nice ta-ta's.  

Lesson learned:  Never let them leave with the $ if you're hosting.  She won't be coming back...

You expect a lady to put on some lingirie that was worn by God only knows who?? Under no circumstances would I put on lingirie provided by a client unless I can clearly see its got store tags on it. Then there is the question of whether it is of a size that fits as well. If you want to ensure that a lady isn't a cash n dash, that is understandable, but asking her to put on used lingirie is NOT the way to do it. YUCK.

Stick with well-reviewed TER providers and this will not happen.

I would never do that either. Thats just a stupid request.
Hey hows about you put on these old boxer shorts I've got layin around...yuck. Are you an idiot?

That's some nasty "shit", lol.

yea..lmao....would never do that, crusty ass thongs for you babe,thought they would look nice..lol