I'm very new to all this, hope this not a stupid question. I want to make an outcall to my house, is that safe? And what if she is LE, how does that work?
Thanks in advance.

I would strongly, strongly advise against it.

I have done it, bur ALWAYS with a provider I have known and built trust with.  Always with one I have seen multiple times.

General rule of thumb for me:  If I don't know her real name or if she doesn't know mine I'm not ready to have her over to my house.  Corrolary:  once she comes to my house she does know my name.

Is it safe?  Its a lot safer for you, than it is for her.

Are you married?  Could the wife or S.O. come home unexpectedly?  

Do you have roommates or others that have access to the house?

How many rooms?  Is someone hiding in the house somewhere?  

Do you have weapons or a gun hidden somewhere?

Is our time together being secretly recorded without my knowledge of consent, hidden away in some common, everyday, household looking thing?

Those are just a few of things that goes through a woman's mind.  We're not paranoid in our thinking, we are cognitive in our thinking.  We are conscientiously aware, that bad things have happened under these circumstances.

There's got to be some trust in there, for the both of you, and it has to goes both ways.  How any two different individuals establish that trust, is as varied as the individuals trying to do so.

Give it some thought, think with the head that sits on top of your shoulders.  Best of luck.

Jaycee

I've only had one escort to my home. I saw her a number of times before I asked, and I knew she had the possibility of being my atf after the first time. So I saw her a few more times at her incall, and then finally asked her for an outcall date at my home. Remember your home is your castle! Good luck

if this is your first visit with the provider, don't have her to your house.  That kind of visit is best left for providers you are familiar with, not ones you have never seen before.  Are you in the habit of inviting perfect strangers over to your house for dinner or drinks?  Don't think so.
Set up an incall is much better until you know her.

As a newbie, remember, only see providers with a good number of reviews by experienced reviewers.
Jaycee gave you some good food for thought, re-read her post.

As far as LE is concerned, they would much rather set up an incall since it would allow many more than just one bust, which is all they would get by coming to your house.  An outcall is just not cost effective for them.

Swim

outcall to my house? only special occassion after building some mutual trust.

For me, at 10th meeting I invited her to my house.

Before you visit with me anywhere, I require your name.  It doesn't matter if its at a hotel or your place.

However, I generally prefer to visit a gentleman at his home only after I have met him previously in a different venue.

Sinthia

Do what ever you are comfortable with.  One very well reviewed provider in my area only does outcall to private residences. I've read too many reviews where the incall location was a mess, so I'm not into that.  Again, read reviews until you find something you feel comfortable with.

It is not something I'd feel comfortable with, so we probably won't meet.  No harm no foul in either direction in my opinion.  We each have things that make us feel safe and if two people do not mesh there are lots of other optiond for each.

I agree it would be high risk for a provider to go to a guy's  home for a 1st meeting.

agreed...which is why I prefer guys come to me. Outcalls are a headache for me sometimes.

... I much prefer a private residence. It's easier for me to verify the gentleman and the atmosphere is far more inviting (most times) than the sterility of a hotel room.

That said, I would recommend you stick with a well reviewed lady if you are going to see her in your home. If you're looking to TOFTT, do it at a hotel.