went to a vip provider dropped a grand and the pics werent how she looked this is the 3rd time do the girls who charge so much think they can do that hey if u look like the pic in person i dont mind droppn the money

If she wasn't the girl in the pictures why did you drop a grand on her? And this is the 3rd time you have done it? Instead of coming to the newbie board to complain (it's meant to be used to ask and answer questions), just stop letting the Bait and Switch girls get away with it. If it ever happens again, just walk away.

By letting this happen again and again (and a third time) you are letting the girls who do this know that they can get away with it. Stop the madness.

Besides, by dropping a grand I would think you are seeing porn stars. I don't know of any non-porn provider that charges that much. I am sure there probably some out there, but the ratio of the under $500 to the $1k providers has got to be very high.

Do your homework and stop thinking with the lil willy.

b-

Your post doesn't make much sense for a few reasons.

First, obviously she wasn't a "VIP" provider if her pics don't match the person you met. She was a rip off.

Second, did she have any reviews? I assume she can't have many reviews, if any at all. If she had a long list of reviews, surely they would indicate that the girl doesn't match the pics.

Third, if she had no or few reviews, what on earth are you coughing up that much money for? Why did you cough up that much money after you met her and saw she didn't match her pics??

Fourth, if this is the third time this has happened to you, have you considered the possibility that perhaps you haven't learned how to do your homework yet??

Finally, where are the reviews for these bait and switchers you keep running into?

You are spending a lot of money to be unhappy.  If you do not have your VIP here on TER, you are "spending a dollar to save a dime".  Seeing $1000 ladies to figure out they are a ripoff is not a smart use of money.

If you do have VIP, you are not using it to its potential.  Take a look at the suggestions below and feel free to post follow up questions if you have any.


First, If you are not a VIP, might I suggest you get your VIP.

Second, Do your research.  Do your research.  Do your research.  Find a lady you think you will like, check to see if she has TER reviews and then post on your local board asking for endorsements or warnings about her.

Third, Listen to what the reviews and local "experts" have to say.  If she is bad most of the time, chances are she will be bad with you...you are not that lucky!...lol

Fourth, join a verification site like Date-Check.com or preferred411.com and find ladies who are at least verified as legitimate providers.

Fifth, make contact and have fun.

Be Safe and Good Luck!

Other Pointers...
Until You develop a Spidey Sense...See ONLY reviewed ladies...DO NOT TOFTT until you are ready or have figured out how to seperate the bait and switchers from the legitimate ladies!

Remember: Think with the Big Head and The Little Head will get Fucked.  Think with the Little Head, and You Will Get Fucked!

Search and research.  That's what this is about.

BBxxx

sharing what you have learned so that others can learn from your mistakes and benefit from your successes.

If everybody on TER only did research and never added any reviews, the system would not work.

If you see a lady, please review her.  That is the only way that others will know if she is worth seeing or not.

Have Fun and Stay Safe!

What does the total lack of punctuation imply?

Gotta be CL providers.

Wow you spent a grand on one girl and she was not pretty ! If you look at the reviews and search BD and escorts.com you could have gotten almost 5 good looking girls for that amount.

Ladies photos are rarely if ever an exact representation and of what you will encounter face to face.  Photos especially for high-end ladies are usually glamorized with poses, dress or undress makeup and lighting to emphases their best features and deemphasize or not show their worst features even in the absence of photoshopping.  The perceive illusion may also be a result your mistaken perception of the photo.  I think we should all keep in mind that these photos are advertisement and realistic expect somewhat less.