I'm a newbie and a couple of weeks ago I emailed several well reviewed providers requesting appointments and provided both my TER and P411 info and haven't received any response AT ALL.  I know I'm new and so I don't have any provider references but at least expected a "No Thanks" reply or something.  Are providers normally this inconsiderate?  They were in the Dallas and OKC area and I'm wondering if this is common around here?  I was excited about new experiences but now I'm just discouraged.  None of them had phone numbers, only email contact info.  Any suggestions, other than "give up"?

In answer to your question, most ladies will email you back, however, your email may have went in with the spam or junk.  These ladies get TONS of emails every single day that they have to try and weed through.  Once you make it into their client list, most ladies will get back with you within a day or two.

Since you are having this dilema, and since you are a P411 member, I would suggest looking for a lady that is also on P411 and has a phone number listed there.  That way you can send her an appointment request through P411, then follow that up with a phone call a couple days latter.

Lastly, make sure that your not missing their emails back to you.  That has happened before.

Did you say anything about services or price?

Also, did you give them plenty of info or was it just name, ter handle, P411 info and date of meeting?

I always try to give the ladies as much info as possible, just to help them feel as comfortable as possible.

I usually start with a brief into, request advance screening, suggest a time frame (early afternoon)for a meeting about a week in the future.  
Be sure to read their web site first & follow any instructions the have.  
If I didn't hear back in 3-4 days, I'd e-mail again.  
Best Wishes,
skb

in date, time, length of appointment?  Did you provide any verification information such as your P411?  Ladies look for this information.

Where you graphic in your request?--this would be cause for a quick delete.

Normally, ladies will get back to you within a week; however, I can't speak for that part of the country.  Always be respectful and considerate when contacting a lady.

Tried e mailing from P411?  

Lina

I gave a very brief introduction and gave my TER and P411 contact info and was very careful not to mention $$'s or services.  One I contacted via P411 and one through her "new friend form" and provided a day and either late morning or early afternoon) her choice.  The other two I contacted via their email address on TER.  I've heard nothing so far and I'm beginning to get the idea that they use email only as a screening tool and figure they can be as rude as they like since they control the contact.  Oh well, there are plenty of other fish in the sea, as the saying goes.

On my next travel thru Ocala..unsure when...you're my main attraction AND backup lady...what else should I plan???

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You were my only plan....and backup plan.......my only other plan was to keep driving.

Do a TER search on the phone numbers of agencies that operate in your area. There will be local agencies and agencies that have a wider scope. Using solid agencies is a way to get started, the better ones will provide references for you once they have done business with you and developed trust. The ladies that did not reply to you likely have their choice of dates and are hesitant to take a chance on a newbie.