In reading the reviews here I've noticed that a lot of reviewers who get a GFE do DATY and DFK. I'm pretty sure I would want a GFE as opposed to a PSE but with no DFK or DATY.  And I'm pretty this is called a naughty GFE. But when I talked to a provider on CL she had no clue what I was talking about. I ended the conversation there but began to wonder if all providers know these acronyms or just the ones familiar with TER. I understand that in the TER realm these acronyms are part of the hobbyist 101 but how universal are these acronyms?

There are quite few acronyms that were unknown to me till i joined TER communinity .. however GFE is something any provider should be familiar with.

XoXo

Lina

However, as is oft debated, there's not really a standardized definition of GFE (or PSE, for that matter). Not everyone is on review boards or even know they exist. For example, I had never heard of "DATY" or "BBBJTCCIMNQNSBBQ" or the like before I started browsing review sites and forums. And as frequently encountered in this discussion area, it takes a while to learn the lingo. See recent post: "What does 'mish' mean?"

As an aside: I would be wary of any discussion of activities before meeting with someone -- even via acronyms. They're universal enough that cops know them too.

You cannot talk about sexual activity with a prospective provider over the phone. In this case, you hung up. But it's just as likely you'll get hung up on. Who knows if the woman knew the acronyms. She certainly wasn't going to discuss it with you over the phone. If you're hoping to be a successful hobbyist, try not to repeat this.

Pretty much the only reliable way to understand what kind of experience you'll have i advance is to read TER reviews for an established provider. Do you have a VIP membership? It is well worth the cost.

Where did you learn that a GFE without DFK or DATY is a "naughty GFE?" That's news to me.

OK, CL girls are often NOT professional, and may or may not know the abreviations.  Not to mention the unknown factor of whether she's a B&S, scam, underperformer, etc.  

The purpose of TER is to let US know through the reviews, whether the lady delivers as promised.  The bonus days of TER for reviews are limited, so you do have to pay at least some to get VIP.  The cost is far less than the cost of a spoiled date, wasted opportunity, wasted donation.  (Been there, done that!)

The abreviations are pretty much standard among the hobby, no matter what web site...  
skb

Here will be your best advice. Stay away from CL girl unless she post that she has TER reviews and you actually see them o TER or the following possibilities will most likely happen.

1. If the girl doesn't understand the lingo then she will not be any good at the "dance" (Sex!!).

2. She probably will look nothing like her pic on CL. They are usually of someone else, or them when they were younger and were not fat!!.

3. You will get very poor sex if you get it at all or worse she will try and upsale you on better service for more money.

4. She will be a No show or worse very late.

5. She will more likely rush you if you are lucky to get any sex.

6. L.E. (police) stings are going on big time right now on CL and you don't want your name in the paper or the news!!!!!!!!!!!

How do I know??....I've tried it when I first started and WILL not ever again. If she isn't on TER then I will not take the chance.

sex acts should not be discussed over the phone or in e-mails.  Once a session begins, some ladies will ask, "what do you like?"  Then you have the green light to be specific.

If you have VIP, you can read the juicy details and find out just what a particular lady likes or dislikes.

There is no provider (or hobbyist) test for acronyms.  Maybe you could contact Princeton Review and work with them to develop this test.

Not all GFE do BBBJ either

Yeah, it was an "ahh crap moment". After she asked what I was looking for and she didn't know what "naughty GFE" meant I ended the IM session. Luckily it was a throw away IM account under a throw away email address. Per the newbie 101 boards I only contact non-reviewed providers by IM using disposable IM accounts and email addresses  (learned that from TER ).

I won't use my hobby phone until I'm 100% sure I can trust the provider. As for the term "naughty GFE" I got it from the below TER link.

I'm a VIP member....guess I should have known better...Oh well, live and learn.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=45013&boardID=10&page

Hats off to you.  You definately have done your research.  The link goes back to 2007.