The cops have 2 main goals. 1- for the individual cops, meet their arrest quota 2- for the department/ DA, to supress the Hobby thru harassment. They don't put you in prison for decades anyway, they arrest you, demean you, emberass you, take your money, force you to jump thru hoops, appear for trials, all to deter you thru harassment.
So, if you show up in their trap, and are careful to avoid even a nodded head or grunt to any soliciting question like 'you here for the GFE?' or 'wanna get started' or whatever, because of 1 & 2 they'll bust you, even if you could defeat it in court after going thru all that trouble. BUT, remember, even to show up, with the correct amount of money, EVEN in your pocket!, in response to a specific Ad, after calling that Ad's number several times and following instructions to find the room, COULD BE evidence of soliciting. If you were smart enough to know what the transaction offered was, LE is too, and the rules of evidence changed on this in the late 90's, allowing LE to use common sense.
Bottom Line, you show up to that room, you're toast. Envelopes don't help, calling it a 'donation' don't help, not talking about the $ don't help, a tit or balls grope LE check don't help, using euphamisms like GFE or Fun or whatever don't help, that's ALL a MYTH.
You Show Up, You Get Arrested.