What is the most polite way to request a certain outfit from a provider?  I know it won't stay on long but I love a specific thing on a blonde.  Would it be appropriate to do that when confirming the appointment?  I've seen one provider say the best thing is to speak generally ("i really love blondes in short skirts") and she will get the point (rather than specifically asking her "do you have _______ and will you wear it for me?")

Thoughts?  Answers from providers especially welcome

whatever your specific request is.  No need to be shy about this.  Once your screening is complete let her know just what you have in mind as far as an attire request.

Many of the gals have very nice wardrobes, and are usually very accomodating.  Just ask!

Just ask her if she can fulfill your attire request.I always ask gents if they have a specific requests for attire because some do and do not know how to ask.Just be honest whether you phrase it "I really love blondes in short skirts"Or you say "Do you have a short miniskirt you can bring with you?"either one will work.I am sure it will not be a problem asking a lady to bring a short skirt with her.
Good luck!

The way I politely phrase it is,

"If you take clothing requests, a skirt/sundress would be nice, otherwise don't worry about it"