1.  you will be nervous, try to relax
2. leave $ in unsealed envelope where she can see it easily
3.  you can offer a glass of wine, but be sure she sees you open the bottle, otherwise she might not accept it.  remember, she knows very little about you.  to take her to dinner, you probably should have booked a date long enough to do that.  however, after playtime is over, you can always ask if she wants to go to dinner, either on or off the clock, but be prepared to do it on the clock.
4.  GFE implies there will be kissing, hugging, etc before during and after the main event.
5.  make sure in your research that she offers BBBJ.  if she does not offer it, you ain't gonna get it.  you should know before you made the date whether or not she does BBBJ.

PM me if you have other questions.

Swim

Oh, have fun.

I can only offer the advice given me, which sounds silly but it is true.  Remember to breathe.  This will calm you down.  You will be fine after 10 minutes.  Be up front with the provider and tell her that you haven't been with anyone in over a year.  As to your questions, simply put the $ in a plain envelope, unsealed and leave it in an obvious place.  I've been told that wine is OK but don't open the bottle until the gal is there.

To be honest, you should know all the answers to your questions, before you see the escort. Did you do any research? Does the lady have reviews, and are you VIP, so you can read the juicy details. If you want to do dinner and dessert, it should cost more than just an incall date, and you should arrange this with her before your meeting. Finally, you might want to reconsider inviting an escort over to your home,for a first date, unless she has pages of great reviews. Hope this helps, good luck and remember to only see well reviewed TER escorts.

1. I can't answer this since I would never invite a total stranger to my house. Good luck with that...

2  What does her web site say? if she states no preference I would leave it in a blank, sealed envelope in very plain site.

3  This should be discussed with her before hand. I t may be possible but I would not assume that it would be off the clock.  This depends on the lady.

4  There are definitions for GFE on this site.  If you don't know what it is how do you know that you want it?

5  Did you read her reviews? Does she offer BBBJ?  If she does just tell her you would like to finish that way. DO NOT assume that BBBJ means CIM or swallow.

(from my side of things lol....)

1... it may be ackward depending upon how safe she feels... but if she is any good she'll size up everything and go on making both of you comfortable.  Nothing worse then being jumpy.

2... my feelings on money, put it aside so she knows it's there but not directly to her.  Then you are cutting down on being ripped off.

3... some girls are ok with that, some aren't.  She may be hestitant on you talking of arrangement in public.  My suggestion, ask afterwords or save for next time.  She'll probably take you up on your offer if she's interested in a regular thing

4... GFE girls tend to take their time and is less ackward.  They tend to be more attentive... just make sure she doesn't become stalker lol.

5... Hopefully you'll find a serious gal who is smart enough to want repeat biz.  

Note: Not everyone is discreet.  I'd watch the outcall thing.  Can lead to problems, down the road.  Some of us are worth our word... others aren't


Hope that helps.  Just a point of view from the other side.

Amber