Right you are..
What most people never quite grasp is that you're alot more conscious of what you're doing than anyone else is. Whenever I visit a provider's hotel room, I don't even blink at the hotel staff.. I barely pay them any attention. Why? Because they see 100 people an hour walk in and out those doors. You're no more special than any of them were. Why act like it?
Same is true of a provider coming to visit you at your hotel.. give her the instructions she needs ahead of time and relax. The staff will pay her about as much attention as any other guest coming in and going straight to their room, which is to say, pretty much none unless you specifically seek them out.
-- Modified on 10/31/2008 7:38:17 PM
I prefer to make appointments and hold them in hotels/motels for outcalls. I generally don't make the call unless I get there and scope out the area in case I notice a lot of traffic, etc.
I don't always get a chance to play so I do so very infrequently, and not being loaded myself I scope out deals for hotels online with the idea that I'd rather spend on a provider's service as opposed to a room that will exist regardless of whether I'm in it.
Anyway, I found myself in a pretty upscale hotel somehow. I'm used to having a door directly to the outside that the girl can knock on but tonight I'm in a place with a central lobby and controlled access. I'm kinda spooked and am not making the telephone call I'd really like to tonight.
Gotta ask: what are the mechanics of outcall to these sorts of places? Does the provider walk up and ask for directions at the front desk? Do I meet them there? Hold open the side door? Smuggle her in through the window? LOL
What's the right way to do it?
This goes on all day and all night long without incident all over the world all of the time.
You can arrange to meet the lady in the hotel bar if you like or you can just give her the room number and ask her to call when she is on her way up. I actually leave the door ajar for my ATF so she can walk right in but a knock at the door is not the end of the world either. Just don't leave the lady waiting in the hallway too long.
Also, make sure that the elevator does not require key access for her to get to your floor. If it does you will have to meet her at the bar.
To be honest I feel much safer in hotels than I do in motels.
Right you are..
What most people never quite grasp is that you're alot more conscious of what you're doing than anyone else is. Whenever I visit a provider's hotel room, I don't even blink at the hotel staff.. I barely pay them any attention. Why? Because they see 100 people an hour walk in and out those doors. You're no more special than any of them were. Why act like it?
Same is true of a provider coming to visit you at your hotel.. give her the instructions she needs ahead of time and relax. The staff will pay her about as much attention as any other guest coming in and going straight to their room, which is to say, pretty much none unless you specifically seek them out.
-- Modified on 10/31/2008 7:38:17 PM
Assuming you are seeing an experienced lady, she will know to enter the lobby, go to the elevators, and then up to the floor where your room is located.
Some ladies may prefer you to meet them in the lobby or the hotel bar. Just give the lady the necessary information (I'm wearing kackies with a blue dress shirt and sitting in the lobby to the left of the main entrance) and all will be fine.
With doors to the outside, too many opportunities for her to be observed going into your room. She may have been followed by LE. LE will not follow a lady into a hotel and up to a room just for a bust.
If a provider has to "ask the desk" where the elevators are..your not dealing with an experienced proovider.
If a provider walks into a hotel looking like a street walker, your not dealing with an experienced provider.
1. Make sure you ask the provider to please "dress approperiately.
2. Make sure you give the directions to the elevator to the provider before she enters the hotel.
3. Have the provider call you when she is in the parking lot so you can leave the door ajar as to not having to "knock" when she arrives.
4. If your room is on a floor that has to be "key activated", meet her on the last floor before having to be "key activated" and walk up together. Or meet her in the bar. Again, stress the importance of "dressing normal".
5. When meeting in the bar before hand, ask the provider to describe what she is wearing so YOU can be on the lookout for HER and have her call you when she is parking the car. I dont know how many times Ive been told.."Im wearing a white shirt and gray slacks"...uhm, ok...how many OTHER people are wearing a "white shirt and gray slacks"??
6. For god's sake..when you see her come into the bar, ACT LIKE you know each other! Start of by saying something like "hey, so glad to see you, how was your flight"? Something along those lines. Hug..something. Chit chat a while before heading to the room.
7. Make sure the provider isnt yapping away on her cell phone when she walks in and if possible, request she doesnt wear shoes that slap the bottoms of her feet when walking across a marble floor! Again...the issue of making sure she looks like anyone else in the hotel and not a street walker!
8. If you have co-workers in the hotel and dont want to "be seen"..meet her in the parking lot and give her a key to your room. Go in seperately.
9. If you can avoid it, have the provider NOT valet her car.
When I go to a hotel on an outcall, I always dress down, carry a tote bag or something that looks like Ive got an overnight bag and sometimes Ive carried my laptop bag, empty..lol AND I ALWAYS know where the elevators/bar is BEFORE I enter the front door and try to have something in my hands to read as if I am in from out of town for a business meeting.
But most of all.....RELAX.
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