Hello!  I'm new (provider) and will most likely have many really dumb questions!

My first question is safety.  Not only protecting myself from the law, but also an aggressive hobbiest.   So far, I've been extremely lucky with no problems.  I don't want to push my luck by just using my gut instincts.  At this point I am not accepting new hobbiests until I get my "ducks in a row".

I would like to build a web-site (similar to:  (pinupgirl1962 and missvixxengfe). They require a hobbiest to go through a screening process. I'm not sure how to go about this? I am computer literate but have never built a site.  Any suggestion?  I'm looking for the most affordable method.

I do not have any "security" outside of having an alarm system in my house.  What do other providers do in terms of protection while going on an outcall?

Also, I would like to know if it would be wise to invest in a second cell-phone?

Well, there's a few questions to start  Thank you so much for reading and hopefully we all "stay safe"!

will be answered in the Self Help Manual (see top of page) and by reading several pages of the Newbie Board.  There is a search function that should become your friend.

Post on your local board so guys can get to know you.  Find another lady in your area who is willing to mentor you regarding the business part of the biz.  Good luck.

and everything to do with how you handle the information you get from a prospective client. Whether by web form or email. Let's just say that what providers do with our info is Top Secret Provider Only, though any reasonable person could guess.

Minimum is references, which are cross checked. The best thing is to develop unprovided references. Meaning, talk to the references provided, and try to find another that they didn't provide (we wouldn't give a bad reference, now, would we?).

What you do with other info, such as emails, phone numbers, etc. is up to you. Other ladies may be willing to share some tricks and sites they use.

You should definately find another provider who would be willing to help you out.  Your safety and the safety of your clients should be your top priority.

The websites your talking about have nothing to do with "screening" those are just like "fill in the blank" form that people fill out and that info is sent to you either by logging in or sent to your email. All it does is give people a way to get their info to you without you posting your phone number or email.  Then it is up to you to contact them using the info they send and contact them either by the number or email they put on the form. The screening process is something you have to do yourself, best is to try and become part of a verifacation service, but as a new provider that may be difficult unless you have references from another provider.

I would hope your not planning on using your home for Incalls, unless you are very comfortable with who you are seeing.  The best security for doing Outcalls is a well done screen of clients and using your instincts.  And again, getting to know other local providers would be a good source of reference for areas not to go or people not to see, plus having someone who knows where your going-when you get there-and when your supossed to leave is always good. Just takes some phone calls so if something happens and you dont call when your supposed to be leaving they can try and get ahold of you or have someone go check on you.  Cant get more specific since I'm not a provider buit that is just common sense stuff.

Phone?? You should have already gotten another phone for your "work"!!!  First because you need something that isnt trackable to you and your reall name and info. Plus as a provider do you want people calling you at all hours looking to meet on the same phone you use to talk to your friends and family? How would you explain that to grandma when your having dinner and you phone wont stop ringing!!  Or even worse someone in your house just picks it up and answers it just to mess with you not knowing what your doing in your private life!!  (could happen)  Work phones can easily be turned off or left at home without having to worry about family or friends not being able to get ahold of you.

Just my opinions

Posted By: xprettyCAgirlx

Hello!  I'm new (provider) and will most likely have many really dumb questions!

My first question is safety.  Not only protecting myself from the law, but also an aggressive hobbiest.   So far, I've been extremely lucky with no problems.  I don't want to push my luck by just using my gut instincts.  At this point I am not accepting new hobbiests until I get my "ducks in a row".

I would like to build a web-site (similar to:  (pinupgirl1962 and missvixxengfe). They require a hobbiest to go through a screening process. I'm not sure how to go about this? I am computer literate but have never built a site.  Any suggestion?  I'm looking for the most affordable method.

I do not have any "security" outside of having an alarm system in my house.  What do other providers do in terms of protection while going on an outcall?

Also, I would like to know if it would be wise to invest in a second cell-phone?

Well, there's a few questions to start  Thank you so much for reading and hopefully we all "stay safe"!

I set up a website for a couple of prooviders once at http://escortsite.com/. It was super easy and free.

Because most of us hide our occupation from part (or most) of our friends, family, neighbors etc.. you also need provider friends for the emotional and mental support. That big secret gets very lonely fast. I couldn't do it without my escort friends; they are priceless and more reliable then most of my civie friends.
Cleo