Newbie - FAQ

Re: Establishing trust
hushfan 11 Reviews 1030 reads
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It kinda depends.  If you made your appt through an agency, then you should be alright.  You'd DEFINITELY be alright if your appt was with someone who has reviews on this site.  Then they are verified to not be LE.

If you're on this site, and did your research from this site, then you shouldn't worry at all.  

I can't even remember how I found out about my current agency of choice, but that site's link to TER reviews let me know that I was safe, and that the agency was legit.

I know, I know...another newb overly concerned about LE.  I read the manual and a lot of the posts but have not seen specific answers setting up trust on a first date.  I have my very first experience set for this week.  I've read a number of reviews and feel pretty comfortable everything is legit (Provider is TGNDTalent if anyone has specific feedback).  But at what point can you be sure you're not dealing with LE?  If they kiss you are you clear? If they don't kiss you when you come in is there a "script" anyone can recommend?  

I have no references so I'm not expecting a kiss and may be asked for ID.  I know to come in, leave the envelope, excuse myself for a quick shower, what should I expect after that?

It kinda depends.  If you made your appt through an agency, then you should be alright.  You'd DEFINITELY be alright if your appt was with someone who has reviews on this site.  Then they are verified to not be LE.

If you're on this site, and did your research from this site, then you shouldn't worry at all.  

I can't even remember how I found out about my current agency of choice, but that site's link to TER reviews let me know that I was safe, and that the agency was legit.

If you are seeing a well reviewed lady, her reviews will give you an idea of what to expect.  Each lady is different in their approach to a date.

There is no specific "LE check" that means anything.  If she is well reviewed here on TER that is the closest thing to a guarantee that you will ever get that she is not LE.

shudaknownbetter1364 reads

Even first meetings usally start with a hug & a kiss.  Just to warm things up...  it's not illegal.  
It is hard as a newbie, which is why we recommend well reviewed providers for newbies.  I'm always somewhat nervious on a first date...  but experience has brought a sense of comfort with the proceedings.  Anything which varies from the norm will run up red flags for me...  but that comes with experience.  
Just stick to the plan, everything will be fine.  
The only tip I have is do not say anything about why you are there.  YOU BOTH KNOW why you are there.  Let the hugs & kisses speak for you.
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