Yes, the best kind of business, "monkey business"!
I'm relatively new here and have a quick question. I always do my research and look for providers with a lot of reviews, but I feel really awkward walking up to the residence / condo of the provider. I always feel like each and every neighbor is standing at the window and is watching me walk to the door. These people must see various clients walking to the residence and will eventually put 2 and 2 together. Do they ever call LE to complain?
Thanks.
Being discreet is the number one priority, we need to be pretty low key at our incall even at hotels.
Typically if the lady is highly reviewed, she has taken the precautions to avoid having the neighbors question the traffic (typically I only see people during business hours so it is less likely to run into anyone).
I sometimes ask clients to bring a briefcase in case there is a question, you can always make them believe that your accountant, lawyer, business associate is visiting you.
I once saw a lady for incall and before I left, she looked out her window and saw her next door neighbors were outside, so she gave me a plastic folder and put blank papers in it. She wanted me to carry it out as I left, so the neighbors would think I was seeing her for business.
Come to think of it, it WAS for business! LOL
Yes, the best kind of business, "monkey business"!
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When I was in college and LONG before I took up this hobby I lived next to an apartment where two girls provided service; they did NOT live there, they just worked from there. The BIG problem was that their customers parked in the residents only parking lot. I'd get home dead tired and have no place to park. Now THAT was the problem as far as I was concerned. I didn't know what was going on until I complained to the landlord and she told me what was going on and that she'd tell them to tell their customers to park elsewhere.
Once I knew what was going on, I stopped complaining and just kept an eye out to scope out the girls. When I finally caught a glimpse, they were young 20s and just kind of so-so. I wouldn't have paid then or now.
So that's my advice: DON'T PARK IN THE NEIGHBORS' SPACES
Haha too funny but something to be said about being discreet and fitting it ... Smart guys would park on the street or elsewhere ... Also like the idea of briefcase. surprise landlord knew and didn't do anything about it or maybe she was in on it.
that is not the same as having an incall in which no one lives, and the traffic is only 2 days a week. Neighbors can't really complain about that, especially if it's a busy apartment building/high rise, etc. Most people work in the daytime, so that's when most providers host incalls. After 5, that's a rap for most, and they might do outcalls or nothing at all. Just be careful who you are seeing, and where. Don't park in the driveway either.
I allow incall in my home. My neighbors know I work out of my home, so my clients are professional, obviously they dont know I provide....I mix up incall and out call. I do not allow early morning or evening incalls.......I make sure I answer the door in some thing professional and conservative....I screen like crazy...it seemed to work out for me : )
I dont think I am drawing any kind of negative attention.
I think clients coming and going from a hotel room is much more obvious and I am always nervous when I incall in a hotel....hotels haven surveillance cameras and can track room activity if they want to.....
and of course I change hotels regularly.
All it takes is one stalker, which no amount of screening can ensure against, or one angry wife to find out your home address, and you're screwed, and not in a good way.
one fucktard looney tune and you are all done. they can easily find out your name from your neighbors stalk you figure out what your car is where you park shop your whole life. By the time you move its too late,
Hotels if you are low volume and pay attention rotate your incall be cautious be smart but an apartment incall although may be cheaper has its own set of issues and safety.
If you look as if you fit in they aren't monitoring who is coming in and out of your room ... Hotel employees have more to do than to watch cams and count doors to see who goes in which doors ... If you cause a disruption and have a half dozen guys in and out they may take notice. Neighbors are much more nosey!
Security came in handy once with a regular of mine ... don't know what I would have done if I didn't have the front office to call. Had seen a guy many times and on one visit he decided it would be kinky to be aggressive, putting his hands on my throat and covering my mouth. After 3 times of me saying no I got up called the front office and asked for someone to come up right away. He quickly grabbed his things and took off. When security got to my room I told him there's a spider in the bathroom and it freaked me out and I'm sorry that I panicked. They suspected nothing and I got him to leave. That's worth the extra $ for hotels.
He can't find out your real name that easily either, like with your personal home. Sorry, but that's beyond stupid to let random tricks into the very bed you sleep at night. Hope you don't have children. Hotels are built on our business since the dawn of time... they know exactly what is going on, and no one I know sees 4 guys a day from the same hotel. They move down the street after one night or they see one guy a day.
many women see up to 3 clients a day and only work 2 or 3 days a week.
many agency gals see 5 plus clients a day from hotels.
Its still safer than allowing the same neighbors to watch guys come and go park and come in staying an hr or so then leaving. that is a sign of a hooker.
Yes I agree hotel staff are very aware whats going on, just don't be obvious don't stay longer than 2 days anywhere and don't book your clients back to back.
always listen t your gutt.
So I agree, if you insist on that type of volume, a private incall would be stupid. Also, what neighbors do you speak of? When you are using a high rise or apartment complex, neighbors can't see shit depending on the location of their windows. There is no drive way to park in, and if they are using a home, there is off street. All of our locations were in college areas where people actually worked and went to school during the day. I would love to know where some of you are hosting where neighbors are always home during the work day... never in my life have I observed that, and I ran an all out brothel for several years in the 'hottest' area of town.
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