Hi I have my first appointment! The lady I am seeing does bbbj but I want to request having it covered. Is this ok or will she be offended? Also to the providers out there do you guys mind if a guy wants to DATY with a dental dam or barrier?

I would be happy if a man wanted to cover himself.  Less risk.  No offense taken.  It would make you seem considerate.  Now I have to go look up what DATY stands for...

Most ladies will oblige, though some don't like the taste of latex. You'll probably have to bring your own dam though. That can be as simple as a piece of plastic wrap.

Okay, back after having seen the dictionary on here.  DATY sounds just fine to me.  But, would you be a doll and tell me what is a dental dam or barrier is?  I couldn't find any definitions to that.  Still have a lot to learn.

Dental dam is used by dentists for dental procedures. They are also used for cunnilingus some people also use plastic wrap.

If you are getting into this trade and didn't know what DATY was without looking it up, then you better read everything you can on the newbie manual as well as all the other important info.

Just don't won't you to get off on the wrong foot.

Just friendly advice from a Duck..lol

Good luck!...DB8

to let them know ahead of time in case they would prefer to use flavored condoms.

What is the risk factor for getting a bbbj from a highly reviewed provider who gets checked monthly and claims to be clean?

I've never heard of that.  Hmm.  Well, I don't see why not.  Thank you for your answer, luv.

No offense at all.  Preferred in fact.

Thanks, luv.  I think I have that term locked in my mind.  Off to learn what I can so I don't seem quite so wet behind the ears.  

Perfect.  Thanks for the link, sugar.  I don't see a problem with such protection at all.

Kisses