I had a call from a guy who wanted me to dominate his SO. He wanted no participation with me. He just wanted to watch. I gave him my couples rate. He felt he should not have to pay the full rate because he was not as I mention participating with me.

Now was this guy just trying to get over on me or should I have offered a discount on my couples rate. Have anyone experience such and would you (ladys)offer a discount or (guys)expect one.

I am an SO and I would not expect a discount.  If a provider offers a lower rate for a female client, great, but I would not presume to expect it.  Also, in a couples situation, you have to deal with two people; even if one is not participating, he's still there in the room- just more for you to worry about.

I'm no expert but the ladies I know who see couples...  are very cautious.  It can backfire & you're in the middle.  The one thing that stuck with me, never book a couple unless you've spoken with the woman first.  
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