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goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 2745 reads
posted
1 / 11

Hi all,

I apologize in advance if this specific question has been asked and responded to already.  I did read the newbie manual postings and did searches but couldn't find what I was looking for.

I've never seen a provider before but am planning to in a couple of weeks.  I pretty much have everything set up with her (outcall at my hotel).  I thought I was comfortable with everything, but the LE thing keeps popping into my head.  How do I go about making sure the provider is not LE?  She has 20+ reviews on another escort site that seem legit. (none on here) I get that it may be her choice to use that site, hence all the reviews are there.  What outside of the reviews should (or can) I do to insure she is not LE?  

Her pics do not show her face.  I didn't think that should be a red flag, but should it?  

I understand all the do's and don'ts of emails and once the meeting takes place, but I also read on here that even if you do all the right things and it is LE that you will still get arrested and have almost all the same issues you would anyway.  

What are the chances it will be LE (I'd like to see a link to that poll I have read about in several postings)?

Any help any of you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

TheCyclist 5 Reviews 923 reads
posted
2 / 11

course. I don't think I've been with a girl that did.

If you said that she had 20 plus reviews on this site I would be comfortable seeing her.

Without knowing more about unnamed site it's hard to say.

A history of good reviews greatly reduces the chance of LE, but nothing is 100%. That a big reason this site is here.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1192 reads
posted
3 / 11

Nevertheless, just in case, let me ask the following:

Did she ever bring up the subject of what kind of sexual acts you like?

Did she mention money or fees in any way?

If the answer to either of those is "yes", then you might want to rethink the visit, but even then I would say that the odds are very low.  She is just being careless herself because she should be  more concerned that you are LE.

You, after all, have no references, and that is not an uncommon LE situation, as is going to a guy's hotel.  (LE likes to set up stings on their turf, not the provider's.)

As for the photos not showing her face, that is not a sign of LE at all, in fact, quite the opposite.  Many gals have professional lives and can not afford to be recognized from their sites.

-- Modified on 8/27/2009 11:09:11 AM

goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 1058 reads
posted
4 / 11

Thanks,

Would be okay practice to let you know the site?  So that you all can tell me if it's reputable?  I didn't list it for fear of being labeled a spammer.

goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 1054 reads
posted
5 / 11

Thank you,

The answer to both those questions are no.  I did confirmed her rates in an email (after 3-4 other emails) because I was slightly confused about the incall/outcall difference.  She just confirmed I was correct in her response.

We discussed dancing, but nothing sexual.  

The odds are really that significant against it being LE?  

I appreciate your guys' time and thoughts.

hungry1951 29 Reviews 929 reads
posted
6 / 11

review site here. It's against the rules, as the other sites are competition of TER.

goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 1162 reads
posted
7 / 11

Pretty much want I figured.  Thanks for confirming.

.huh 1166 reads
posted
8 / 11

So you are not really a newbie. Did you take a long break?

TheCyclist 5 Reviews 1457 reads
posted
9 / 11

Send me a PM by clicking on the little envelope
next to my user name, if you have VIP.

I'd be happy to look at any info.

TC

goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 1300 reads
posted
10 / 11

I suppose in the true definition I am not.  I did take a long break (and didn't see many providers then)....and that was a point in my life in which I did not think about the ramifications of any decision I made.  Long, long story.  I'm basically a different person now.

goodtimesgr 5 Reviews 957 reads
posted
11 / 11

I'm not a VIP member at this point.  Thanks for the offer though.

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